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Is anybody up for answering a generic question about a high schooler with a bad social situation?

Yeah, im sure you'r not. But if you do then that would be awesome because i need advise from people who dont know who im talking about so they won't be offended.

Basically, im bored with my friends. My friends bore the living hell out of me, i actually try to get out of lunch because i hate sitting with them. I have a few good friends, but they dont have the same lunch period as me or they are never at lunch or they are pretty quite at lunch. My best friend hardly has been in school at all this year. All my friends talk about is school, but they talk about things like how many AP classes they are taking next year (most of them are taking like 3-4), im not taking ANY because i have anxiety issues with school work. They have nothing in common with me, im interested in art, rock music, tv, satire, society, different subcultures, etc. They just talk about academics, and they are pretty intimidating because i am an average student and they are all really good students. They also talk about classes im not in. They tend to not be very inclusive in their conversations. I go to a really big school, so you'd assume i'd find a group of kids that have similar interests to me. I think there is a group but the problem is i dont know how to approach them, i feel like it would be weird to just walk up and start talking. Most of them are juniors/seniors so im not in classes with many of them but some of them are also sophomores. The group of people are kind of like the "alternative/punk/metalhead/ hippie" kind of people and i am interested in that kind of music and stuff. The ones i do know also seem to have similar thoughts on things that i do. The other issue is that they pretty much know each other because they all smoke in the same place after school, i dont smoke and i dont plan on starting and i know people who hang out there and dont smoke and they dont get pressured to or anything, but i just dont know how to approach them otherwise. And i'm getting depressed by hanging out with my current friends because honestly they make me feel stupid because im not in 4 ap classes or whatever. So i'm just really stuck in this situation, i feel really out of place in my group of friends and i dont really have much in common with them. How do i approach a different group of people without being weird?

Update:

My friends have cockroaches crawling out of their ears, have kiwis instead of eyes, reek of mothballs, threaten lawsuits against inanimate objects, sleep with toasters, use cold slaw instead of shampoo, and cut old people's hands off and use them as Christmas ornaments. When i use my lazier vision to cook my lunch they tell me to stop and start yodeling at me whenever i throw my trash away.I would like to stop sitting with them because they threatened to kidnap my chinchillas and teach them how to water ski for insurance advertisements if i keep sitting with them. Is that more interesting for you Eric?

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    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Have you tried being more stimulating, more informed?

    I switched off as soon as I read "Basically, im bored with my friends. My friends bore the living hell out of me, i actually try to get out of lunch because i hate sitting with them."

    Pardon me, I find eating cornstarch a little more fascinating than that.

  • I somewhat understand what you are going through since I moved this year to a whole different state.

    The best way to find new friends is to start by talking to the people around you in class, that way it doesn't seem to awkward. From there adjust by talking with them in the hall, between class, and possible out of school.

    I hope that helps a little. Good luck :D

  • 1 decade ago

    i know it sounds intimidating but it isnt really. my family and i move a lot so im used to it nd i wasnt really good at making friends but the real key is to be confident nd happy. im always in a good mood nd people really admire it nd it makes u seem much more approachable. just go up to them one day nd be like, 'heya, do u mind if i hang out with u guys?' its really not that hard, just be confident, nd try to find some common groun with them, like ask them which classes they're taking or be like, 'hey, u know its kurt cobain's birthday today?'...idk, find nything.

    i hope i helped, let me know how it goes

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