This boy is COMPLICATED! Why the mind games?

Yes ask him to hang out this weekend, and you can make it casual or not, it's your choice. You're the one making the plans. When you and him will be alone, that gives him a greater chance to ask you out because you won't be with other friends to make him feel awkward.

Thanks for answering my Q and thanks for the encouragement, I would like to stand up to her but how?...is another question lol thanks alot though

When you said no i don't want to answer over text to him it means no not ever, he feels he will be rejected even if he asks in person, he is intimidated to ask you out, it seems he truly does like you but is unsure if you will return how he feels in kind. he is embarrassed now , he thinks he made a fool of himself and is embarrassed to be around you now,...yes i would ask him out and i guess casually so not to put as much pressure on him, so he can relax and be himself around you, and then its up to you two which direction this relationship goes. Hope i helped

You should have just said yes, if you like him then you would have been going out with him already when he asked you through text. So i think you are the one playing mind games to be honest. But other than that, it seems like he is shy, so approach him yourself.

the comparable reason adult adult males beat up women that they needless to say be conscious of they might overpower: retribution for some imagined ordinary. once you have become dumped on by women, this is obvious that they sense they might do it with none concern of having caught or getting harm in return. Cowboy up chum; this is going to ensue to you till you draw a line interior the sand and make advantageous the girls you date be conscious of extra perfect than to circulate it!

dass kool. understood everything while it was happening so i didn't freak out.

i only freaked out in confessing my love for yhu becuz i had a 2 % piece of doubt that i could have been wrong. i can't wait to tell yhu everything in person when we go out again.. it will make more sense. i'll have to bring every paper i have too. you'll see. it sounds confusing even right this second but it will make sense soon. don't worry. but i knew dat was da case. i was just scared as hell to tell yhu that i knew. i didn't wanna be proved wrong.

Its weird how things sometimes go from one extreme to another - from hot to cold ... Am a bit like that myself for many reasons but am TRYING to be more balanced and find the middle ground

If he was CONSISTANT it would help but its probably got something to do with fear!

I agree with you. He obviously likes you already so you might as well just ask him. Nine times out of ten he'll say yes. (He might think that you don't like him though. Get that cleared up first.)

i think u should ask him to hang out. He probably wants to ask u but maybe u make him nervous

This gentle guy will shock the hell out of you thats why he is hiding his presence. With the other side of the coin, only your care will make him less shocking.

yes...ask him....when he asked by text and u said no...he did not understand why u said no....so now he is afraid to ask.....u ask him out......

and tell him why u said no....

boys try and when thhey get a no for an answer..they think they are being rejected...and they have been rejected before...so they are careful......