GUYS..so if I guy doesn't *** for a while when we're dry humping..?

Actually, if he didn't masturbate, then it would have the opposite effect, and he would finish sooner...that's what's happened in my experience anyway, with more than one guy....

I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that he is cheating, I mean there are many, many reasons why this could be happening. Also, dry humping isn't very satisfying for anyone; I don't know how easy it is for any guy to orgasm that way, unless he is vastly inexperienced sexually.

There could be a number of things to explain his longevity, and his inability to orgasm from dry humping.

Yes, it is normal for a guy that hasn't had sex in a long time to get off rather quickly, but again, dry humping isn't really that satisfying for a guy...sure, you would think that he would after hours of doing it, but it's not always that black and white. Plus, if he had just had sex with someone else, then he probably wouldn't even be able to sustain an erection for that long either. Is he on any drugs? Medications?

Surely he masturbates. Everyone does. Men, women, all of us. He is lying about that, I can pretty much guarantee that. I don't see why he would lie about it....unless you don't want him to masturbate for some odd reason or another. Anyway, he's lying about the masturbating thing 100%, but don't get mad at him about it, just let him know that it's okay if he masturbates, you don't care. Anyway, just talk with him about this.

See what he has to say, and also, if there are any reasons other than this that would lead you to believe that he is, in fact, cheating on you, then you might want to examine all of these reasons and think about whether or not you should even continue this relationship with someone who has a tendency to lie and deceive so much (if that is what he is doing; if not, disregard this part).

Ok, the first thing I saw as being a lie is that not masturbating will lead to being to last longer. That's a flat out lie. The polar opposite is true. Males, if they haven't ejaculated in a long time, can sometimes do it in literally under a minute. If they have a few times over the past few days? Not so much.

That right there says he's lying to you. If he's lying on that one thing, then it indicates he has reason to do so for a bigger reason.

Becca's right, the dude is gaming you one way or the other.

On a side note, any woman who forces a guy to dry hump for hours should be marked with a scarlet letter so as to aid in identification and avoidance - you're just plain evil girl, doin that.

he is lying, he should ejaculate within minutes if he is not masturbating, but before doubting check out other facts also, coz just he doesnt ejaculate doesnt mean that he is sleeping around, he must be genuinely able to do it, coz in my case i also can hold on for an hour before ejaculating, and tell you something it is a gift of god, coz very few guys can hold on for more than five mins

Sometimes a guy wont 'pop' coz he's not into what your doing or hes wishing he was somewhere else

otherwise the friction/motion alone is enough to force one out of him. When I was younger I was with a girl because I felt sorry for her - most of the time I wasnt into it because I didnt really like her (sorry)

Or hes on drugs/booze or gay

Agree 110%

he's lying. all of my guy friends (don't ask me how we got to the topic, we just did) tell me that if you jack off a lot, you can control and hold it up for longer periods of time.

so either he jacks off a lot or has a lot of sex. hopefully for you, it's not the latter.

I don't think he felt enough with you. Maybe you need to do some exercises for that.

move on hun cus he has