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My bf broke up with me after 2 and a half years. I broke down crying and begging and idk what to do now....?

I realize that I made things worse by begging him to take me back... and it was my fault that he broke up with me because I've been getting depressed lately and expected him to fix my problem.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    sorry to hear that, guys don't like depressed women, for guys, it is hard to deal with emotional women, but for him to up and leave you because of it? hes not worth it honey, find yourself a real man, someone who will stick with you even through the hard times. this will make you stronger and it will get easier in time, dont beat yourself up, get back on that horse and keep the race going!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he broke up with you after 2.5 years, he may not want to take you back. Maybe he was getting sick of seing you depressed and always asking him to help you out. Also, the begging thing probably was a huge turnoff for him and it further disgusted him. Best thing now is to give him total space and work on yourself, your depression, and try to get a social life outside of him. He may come back, but he very well may not. I have saw this happen before. Work on you and move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeah, it sucks now, but don't get hung up over it, it'll get easier with time.

    Think of it this way: If he doesn't take you back, you'll have learned from this. Try to better yourself now, find ways to make yourself happy without depending on a boyfriend or a relationship to do it for you. Then the next relationship you end up in will hopefully be richer from this experience.

    Source(s): I'm pretty much in the same situation.
  • 1 decade ago

    He broke up with you because you were depressed? What an asshole! I have had depression in the past,I was coming out of it when I started going out with my boyfriend, and he never consided breaking up with me. He sounds like someone who isn't good for you if he can't even help you through a difficult time!

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  • Sam
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    What you do now --- is other things you enjoy. Movies, books, concerts --- like that. You need to learn to have a good time with yourself. If you don't enjoy your own company --- no one else can either.

    If you have a depression problem --- you might want to seek professional help.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you begged him to take you back but he didn't then he doesn't want you, sorry. Just leave him be, he may change his mind over time but if he ended it after so long I doubt he will. x

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you have to just get on with your life.. If he doesn't want you than maybe your just to good for him.. there are many guys out there prob waiting for a girl like you :D

  • 1 decade ago

    you know the best way to get him to know what he lost (which is you)is to kinda ignore him.Get him jealous(maybe with another guy)and he will come around:) Good Luck :)

  • Sazz
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well don't beg anymore, that's all I can tell you.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you really love him, you just have to let him go.. don't be selfish and you should be thinking of his happiness,, even if it gets you OFF the picture.. >_______<

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