He was trying to cheat right?

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have been having issues with my 31 yr old bf. i am 23 and we have a 16 mth old together. I just broke up with him 3 weeks ago but took him back. the reason i broke up with the loser is because he thought i was with some guy one night when i was really at work and so he basically broke into my apartmetn and ordered $45 in teen porn from my comcast and admitted he wacked off. I am still not over it
So the yesterday, i broke up with him AGAIN because i was going thru the internet history on his phone(yeah i do that because he cant be trusted; our whole relationship he's been making secret accounts on things like mocospace) and i found a myspace account, i did not know about. he got this scared look on his face and flipped the f--ck out, i sh*t you not. he was driving my car and started swerving to get has damn phone back. then i look over and see him sneakily doing something on his phone i kept asking him "if you have NOTHING to hide, why cant i see the account"?! he wouldnt let me, got angry called me a psychotic ***** said we were done, ect. 
NOW what would you think if you were me? if he had nothing to hide, why was he hiding it, and why does he have a myspace anyways? he said why cant he have friends, i told him its not friends with you you use the internet as a tool to cheat. when i was 3 months pregnant he called a girl cute and gave out his number on line. This really is the last straw. Do you blame me?
14 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer. 

why have a myspace when you have a facebook behind your gf's back. the only logical explanation and from how freaked out he looked, is that he is cheating or trying to...and btw, the myspace is not under his first and last name, he really didnt want me finding it




hes not a good person he got me kicked out of my apartment so i have to move by april 4th i pay all the bills to. i think he uses me and has sh*t on the side why else would all these accounts keep coming up?

Piperkaye · Accepted Answer

I think you know the answer.  Or are you that blind?  Love shouldn't be that hard to make work.  It's obvious that he doesn't care too much about you if he constanly disrespects you.  So just because you have a child together doesn't mean u have to be together.  Don't u want to be happy?  It sounds like u rarely are.  Get out of this relationship ASAP or this will keep happening over and over like a broken record.  Move on.
Good Luck!!!

? · Answer

I don't let people copy off me and I don't copy of other people, but I do prepare my own notes before the test so I can cheat off them. I've gotten caught many times, sometimes I was punished, sometimes the teacher laughed it off and let me finish the fair way. I don't mind if I get caught, since I knew of the risks when I started and still chose to do it. I don't really have a cleverest way, and it depends on the teacher. Whatever works with a given teacher is good.

Roadrunnermike · Answer

He sounds like a lying cheat, I would stay away, but He must be an A---Hole to do that when You have a baby,  watching porn is one thing but setting up accts. to meet Women and getting phone numbers , You cant trust Him at all.  Good Luck

Chiara · Answer

omg, get out of that relationship as soon as you can.

1. someone who accuses you of cheating or is afraid of you doing such, when you haven't given any reasons to it, it's because he knows he can do it, so why won't you? do you get what i mean? 
guys who cheat are terribly afraid to be done the same back. 

2. looking for porn is cheating. 

3. Going out with sl*ts knowing you're pregnant (doens't matter if you're together or not)... it's just someone you shouldn't waste your life with.

Anonymous · Answer

Bottom line - it just sounds like you two are not good for each other.  Let him go.  Maybe he was trying to cheat & he's the scumbag you make him out to be.  Maybe you are too intrusive & possessive.  But one thing is sure - you need to stop wasting your lives with each other.  It's not worth it.

lada · Answer

that man is a LOSER.
dump that ******* bastard and move on,
You know you are too beautiful; to pretty, tobe treated like this
Get another bf and make him jealous

Dump Him
and he can watch his porn by himself
and live in the damn streets

Anonymous · Answer

you do sound crazy a little. Way too obsessive, you might have delusional disorder. What's such a big deal of having a myspace anyways. 

If my GF started going thru every **** I own, I'd break up with her too.

Anonymous · Answer

He's done nothing that you've written that says he can't be trusted. You're being WAY too clingy and intrusive. Relationships are built on trust and love, and if you can't trust him, it's not good to be with him.

He watched porn, SO WHAT? the only bad thing he did was using your money.

Anonymous · Answer

leave him and dont go back. he has a problem and unless he wants to fix it then you shouldnt waist your time.
Child support, get on it! back child support will be added if he doesnt pay, when he files for taxes it will go to you. file for it asap!

Anonymous · Answer

stop asking the same question about the same guy.

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