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Boy problems; boys&girls answer please ?

ok so i really really like this boy in my school, we are in the same gym class, in the beginning of the year i wasnt that into him, i thought he really liked this other girl who is more "popular" than me, but latley hes stopped talking to her completely ? i dont know what happened there, but now ive gotten to really like him, we talk alooot, we are pretty good friends, in gym he stares at me alot, and if i look back at him we both smile and look at eachother for a while...its sorta akward but nice :] im in 7th grade btw, im getting pretty convinced that he likes me but, hes a lot more "popular" than me, but unlike other boys im friends with from that "group" he actally smiles at me in the hallway instead of pretending like he doesnt know me, which is nice, i dont know if i should tell him ive liked him for a while and still do, or wait ? i really need help ! xothanksxo!

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Popular guy facts:

    1. MOST of them have bad grades

    2. Go out with many girls

    3. Don't care about your feelings

    4. They NEED to be coupled up!

    Honey, what assures you he does not flirt with other girls when you are not around?

    They usually flirt with many girls so that the "Girlfriend Progress" is leveled on all of his female

    friends.

    Source(s): I am on 8th grade darling and I am consired well...VERY FRIENDLY... so I now this type of guys... Just remember that were are still too young on some peoples eyes darling so don't rush life! Hope I helped! xoxox Shivany
  • 1 decade ago

    Sweetie, you should tell him. When I was growing up I went through something similar and years later at as an adult ran into that guy and he told me how he used to have the hugest crush on me. I almost died, we were both just to scared to come out and tell each other. Of course, none of it matter in the present because were both in relationships with other people.

    So tell him. Dwelling on things stresses you out. When I look back on Junior High/High school I see a lot of regrets. None of the things that seem to matter now will matter later on. Everything changes in the real world. Worst case scenario he tells you he just wants to be friends and having a friend that is close as you seem to be with him is not all that bad.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Make the first move.. But make it friendly Just expect to be friends... Not only cuase you don't know him but because all great relationships start as great friendships.... Now getting him to notice you in a school might be the tricky part: Try eye contact and smile.. Maybe he will aproach you Also you can cross your fingers and HOPE he ends up in one of your classes next year But there is always the classic ... find out one of his friends that is the easiest to talk to (in one of your classes, lunch, etc) and ask him about his friend.. but be cautious on what you say keep it to a compliment like "who is that guy your usually with he seems really nice" BELIEVE ME it will get back to him through the friend.... I wish i knew more so i could give you more advice GOOD LUCK :-) P.S. Be confident.. Men love that

  • 1 decade ago

    First I think next time you talk you should try asking some kinda random questions (like: So, do you like any girls in gym class? or, Do you like any girls in school? If he says yeah, ask him if you know her, this should give you some clues) to see if he likes you or another girl...he might ask you if you like a guy, then you can tell him that you do and don't tell him straight up who it is, but give him hints so he can guess it's probably himself that you like.

    Source(s): Hope I've helped, I'm a freshman in college and have had great luck with relationships so far :)
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  • 1 decade ago

    you should get his number I am in eighth grade and the one way i got my girlfriend to go with me is by getting her number. If you already have his number you should talk to him. DO NOT SMUTHER HIM. Talk to him maybe once every day or two days. Any guy likes it when a girl takes intrest in him so you should do fine. When the time is right to tell him your feelings you will know (unless he tells you his first) Good Luck to you though :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he sounds like a really sweet, caring guy. i think you need to flirt a little bit. right out telling him you have a crush on him might freak him out a little bit. but you definetly need to let him know you're into him through attitude and body language. go to google and type in " how to let him know you're into him" if i remember correctly, it should be the first or second result. hope this helps :)

    now could you answer mine?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnAar...

    Source(s): i went through the same thing when i was in seventh grade, and the guy and i ended up dating for a year ;)
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well it depends how long he's stopped tlking to that girl for.

    And do you think that he likes you? Like just watch for signs. I thknk you should wait a bit just in case, but if you are sure he might like you then go ahead.

    Hope it works out. =)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i think he is getting to the point of liking you. even thought he's more popular he can still like you and talk to u. this really popular guy talks to me a lot even when he doesnt have a reason too. we r still friends even thought im a weirdo.

  • 1 decade ago

    well when i first met my bf before we got together, i couldnt stand him, i thought he thought he was all that and then he started to talk to me and he was really sweet but kinda a player. and i didnt know if i should ask him out or wait or just not to, and i just went for it and weve been together ever since last year around febuary. i just was like "do u like me?" and he said yeah and then was like "well i like you to, do u think we should be together ?" and he said yes and boom thats what happened :) so go for it

    Source(s): my awesome self
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    im in 8th grade i went on my first date in 7th grade i know how u feel i think u should go for it

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