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girl that i really like already has a boyfriend. do i tell her how i feel?

just today i found that the girl i really like has a boyfriend already. i am hoplessly bad with romance, and therefore haven a clue what i should do next. (exept to sit here, wondering what to do next of course) should i tell her how i feel? should i even bother trying to keep a friendship going with her? as of right now i am unsure of how comfortable i would be remaing friends with her considering my feelings for her. i really fell for this girl and i would like her to know how i feel. i just dont know if i should. i dont want it to ruin our friendship.

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  • xo.
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Well, if shes happy with this guy, and you like her won't you want to be happy, so letting her be with this guy is a good idea to do.

    Try not to get involved by saying you like her when she has a bf, it could affect the relationship of them, and the friendship of you and her.

    Wait untill she is single, and maybe ask her then, or you could if you want to do it romantically, like write it down for her.

    But its up to you, if you really loved/liked her, you would want her to be happy.

    Good luck :]

    x

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't know if I'm the best person to answer, but if you like her tell her. The fact that she has a boyfriend doesn't mean that she really loves the guy. Besides, instead of being misserable and sit around waiting for some miracle to happen, you should be brave and honest, not only with the girl but with you too. How do you expect her to trust you if you can't even express you true feelings? I can tell you that your friendship with her isn't going to be the same, but at least you will know her feelings for you. Just remember, do what your heart tells you to do!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You know what I in the same boat but you know what I think you should keep a friendship with that special person and be patient your time will come until then forge ahead to become the man you know you can be then when the time comes you should make that woman your own Because you know I will o the same thing I don't quit and I don't Give up That 's My code and i live by it. But that 's just me you should live by your own personal code That's what i think

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell her her you feel then =]]

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