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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Should I say something or not?

Okay, so this is a little complicated :(

About 3 years ago, this girl started liking me, and then fell in love with me. I didn't feel the same way, so we were just friends, but it was kinda awkward..

Then, about 6 months ago (2.5 years later), she told me that she'd finally gotten over her feelings for me.

About 2 months ago, we started talking even more and became a lot closer as friends. About a month ago i realised i had feelings for her. They haven't gone away..

Should I tell her? Would you want to know in her position?

It seems highly selfish.. It took her so long to get over me.. If i told her i had feelings for her, it would probably make her confused..

But i feel like if i don't tell her, i'll regret it for the rest of my life because i'll never know what could have happened..

Haha that was fairly long sorry

Any help or opinions would be appreciated :)

And yeah, i see the irony of me liking her NOW as opposed to before :(

Also i should probably mention that when we first met, i liked her a bit.. But then she started liking me and kinda.. Changed when she was around me.. So i stopped liking her..

But in the last 2 months i see the old her again.. If that makes sense lol

Thanks

Update:

Yeah.. We spend a bit of time together.. Like 1 on 1.. And a bit of flirting lol..

I dunno.. I guess she probably deserves to know

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  • 1 decade ago
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    what the heck r u waiting for??? tell her! you nub!!

    don't wait!!! I can bet on my life that she will say yes!!

    Source(s): I wish he tells me! ^_^
  • 1 decade ago

    Just spend more time with her, it might make her feel like she likes you again, and it will certainly give you a chance to see if what you feel for her is real.

    Hope this helps :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her.

    If she really doesn't like you anymore, it won't be cruel for her. Just try to be cool about it.

    If she still does, it probably won't be cruel as well because the news will make her happy.

    Go for it!

    Source(s): Me, I guess.
  • 1 decade ago

    You should have gone out with her when you had the chance telling her you like her now is just cruel.

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  • 1 decade ago

    THAT makes a lot of sense.

    I think she would appreciate it if you told her.....She might still be feeling that way but hiding it. AND it would make her feel better.

    hmmm.....maybe you like her cause she supposedly does not like you....

    Anyway.....Not ironic...Inevitable ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    When you get a decent answer, let me know. I'm in the SAME situation, only reversed

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should, who knows, her feelings for you may be "rekindled". Just give it a go. Good Luck :D

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    dude you missed teh boat

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