Should I Stay or let him drift away on his own?

leave him:

a) he cheated on you

and

b) your baby and your future may not be too bright with a partially gay husband...

but if you really love him and are willing to take w/e for him then think about it. and about the diseases, your baby could get that if he cheated with a girl or guy...so good luck :) remember, this is a life decision!!

There's no reason to be rude to them. At 23 - you are all discovering who you really are. You just aren't that person anymore and it's ok to move away from it. Their continued calls are their attempt to keep you in the loop. When they ask you to do something - an activity that you just don't want to do - politely tell them you're not into that anymore. Eventually they'll be growing away from it as well - you'd be surprised but in 10-20 years you will all have come full circle and the successful ones will be the ones who made wise choices at this point. Good luck sounds like you're on the right track.

i think that if he told you that you could date other people that that is his way of saying he doesn't want to be with you anymore. maybe he doesn't have the guts to tell you that outright but think about, if you were in a loving relationship with someone that felt the same way about you as you do them, would you tell them they could see other people? No you wouldn't because you really care for and love this person! if it was just a fling then you probably wouldn't care. or maybe he doesn't want to leave for the sake of the child because he would feel guilty. i think that you should go your separate ways before you become even more hurt than what you already are. you can find someone that will love and cherish you and only you. holding on to him may be stopping that someone from coming along. i think he is just using you as a scapegoat for his family and maybe for his pride

Sounds like he is using you. As a cover up. If I were you I would not put up with it. He is putting you and your baby in danger for disease and he can't see that. Try talking to him. Tell him exactly how you feel. I would leave him if I were you. Go find you a man that will appreciate you and want to be with JUST YOU. He is too much of a risk for future problems.

Ok, well this might not help you but here it goes. i think that if he wants to date other people then he only wants you as a cover-up and he does not really love you.Men can be like that, they can kinda bane wash you. If i were you i would ask him if he is willing to let go of everything else and JUST be with you(make sher that you and the baby are safe) and no one else. If he says no then i would break-up with him right then and there. But this is your life, so do what you think is right.

I personally would leave... I think thats gross, not because he's bi but because he is putting his penis inside someone else... Thats how you have to think if it.. Him being confused about his sexuallity is not an excuse to have sex with other ppl... My ex's step dad is gay.. After being married for 10 years and having two kids, she found out htat he was cheating with men.. And he eventually left HER.. How stupid she must feel.. It wont ever stop, he's not going to stop having feelings for men and you arent a man so I would definitely take my baby and get out of the relationship... You deserve better... I know it's easier said than done but you have to think about your baby and yourself.. Good luck :)

End the romantic relationship, but keep the friendship for the sake of the baby. You will eventually find someone whom you can make a life with, but this man is not it. You will have to figure out a tactful way to explain the situation to your child, but leave his family to him to explain.

Leave him, if he doesn't love you enough to to try and change for you then it isn't worth it, in the end it's only going to hurt you, and not only will your child lose respect for him, but you child will lose respect for you too. You deserve to be with somebody who loves you and only you not you and some man here and some man there. I'm sorry, and I know it is going to be hard, but you have to try and let him go and move on, because its going to be the better choice in the long run.

Straight up talk to him. Tell him your feelings and your thoughts but tell him your not trying to change him but just trying to get him to understand your thoughts and worries. you have every right to be worried and have very good thoughts. love can be tricky but also amazing. if he doesnt understand then its just not meant to be. and if the sex is getting rougher because of him having sex with men then you will definitely want to talk to him about that too cause sex is a great part of a relationship.

my friend says that he has to choose cause an affair in marriage is an affair whether it be with same sex or not. good luck and God Bless you and your future child

Ask him his sexuality. If he's gay, you two being together is wrong. If he's bisexual you need to tell him to pull his act together and if your not enough then he's not worth it.