Not in Relationship till College? Guys whatdo you think...and girls?(10 pts best answer)?

I personally respect your views. If you wait until college the guys are just total douches and will just try and get sex out of you most of them will be like "I love you" and you know what they are going to do screw you over and be like peace and in the end he will look cool and you will look like a garden tool. I think it will really help in the long run to get to know someone before getting into a relationship and im not trying to say that all the boys in college are going for sex but its most of them that are. I really hope that you find the right person.

Good Luck.

~From a Guys Perspective.

For the most part Michael is right, guys don't even see women as people in college, they see them as status enhancements for the most part. There are some exceptions but very rare to find, and the trials it takes to find a nicer worthwhile sort of guy is usually a lot of stress and distraction from college.

as a side note, the men who go to the colleges you describe are even more so that way then at other colleges.

Because the men in those colleges at the expensive and renowned universities tend to think they're 'super human' and egotistical, and are usually lost causes after college because they lack life experience to deal with the rest of the world because their ego disables them from being capable of listening to others.

I'm a girl who has been in a relationship, BUT, I feel that in your situation, it is DEFINITELY perfectly fine :) You can definitely wait until college because most people find the people they are so-called "destined to be with" there or later on. And whoever you are destined to be with, even if they were at your high school, I am pretty sure you are going to be able to meet them again because you are "destined to be with" them. So don't fret and don't listen to what those people say. It's YOUR beliefs and YOUR life. So live it the way you want it.

I like you, you seem to have your head on straight which is a rare occurance nowadays. I like to think that you are smart for not really wanting or needing a relationship right now. For you to want to wait until you found someone who is right for you is very admirable.

I'm sure there are others who are in the same boat as you, waiting til they are older and mature enough to handle a relationship. Where as others jump into things too fast, too young, worrying about trivial crap.

Wait as long as you feel you need to hon, don't waste time worrying about what others think of your decision. It's your life and your happiness afterall, isn't it. I doubt that the guy who falls in love with you will have a single problem with any choices you have made, as I said, you sound like a very smart girl with her head in the right place.

Good luck.

Alright I'm in 7th grade and 12 and I am already going out with a girl. I don't know how I could possibly wait till collage to get in a relationship. If I was your first kiss I would be shocked but doesn't really matter. I know a few people who have to wait until college for a relationship due to their parents. I couldn't imagine waiting until college

You should totally wait until u get what you want. You obviously have a strong reserve to follow Native American Beliefs. You shouldnt let any1 take u away from what u want and you should do as you want. This way you'll have no regrets.

College isn't the time to wait for a relationship. Trust me. All college guys care about is screwing every girl. If you want to wait that long, just wait till after college.

when the right person comes then you will know

HAHA I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE TO HAVE A ARRANGE MARRIAGE OR SOMETHING LOL! but i found a guy like what girls talk about like one of thsoe guys who girls dont think exist xD

girl....you are in the right.,.. you just love yourself and so your doing the right thing.don't listen to what people say about it....just love yourself .....i don;t care for what people say..it's not worth it..

just be yourself and do as you like.. then you'l get the right person