My girlfriend is not talking to me...?

it sounds at the moment she just needs space. but ur being a really understanding boyfriend by taking a back seat and letting her take care of these problems without going moody. id leave her for a bit, dont text her or ring her. let her talk 2 u first. it will be hard but she needs to realize that she has pushed you out.

I think that your concerns are legitimate, and you should definitely address them with your girlfriend. In order to do this without sounding like you are attacking, I would start the conversation by giving her some time to talk. Ask her about her spring break. Listen to what she has to say. Maybe she will address the issues without you even bringing them up. She might be just as upset about being to busy to spend time with you. Anyway, after she's talked and you've listed, if she hasn't brought up the issues you wanted to address, I would go ahead and let her know how you are feeling. Just be sure to phrase things in terms of 'I' instead of putting blame on her. In other words, say things like, "I was upset that we didn't get to spend time together as we had planned." Rather than saying, "You really upset me when you broke our plans." If you keep things focused on your feelings, you should avoid attacking her. If she still feels attacked, it may be that she is feeling guilty or that she is feeling there are problems with the relationship but is not wanting to address them.

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My girlfriend is not talking to me...?

Here is my problem, and my questions are in the last paragraph. Thank you so much for reading.

We are both on Spring Break right now. March 26th- April 4th.

The last time I saw her was March 25th on Thursday when she got out of class. I was there waiting for her (as expected) and I gave her...

Ah, high school relationships. I hate to break it to you, but it sounds like she is distancing herself from you because she is hoping you will break up with her first and she won't have to be the one to end the relationship. It starts out by not talking, missed plans, some fights then it's over. I did it to a few guys, and I had a few guys do it to me when I was younger. It's the most frustrating thing in the world, because you never know what exactly went wrong when your on the bad end of it. Remember, it was spring break, and she was probably out doing things while you were gone, and might have met another guy she likes and is blowing you off to hang out with him. At your age, people's wants change so fast. The best thing for you to do is see how she reacts tomorrow when you see her at school. If she seems perfectly normal, happy to see you, and wants to make plans to catch up on spring break stories, chances are she really was just busy. Go about your relationship like normal, maybe plan some time after school so you can hang out and catch up. But if things seem off, and she's not really being talkative or rushes off, chances are she's already checked out of your relationship for one reason or another. Take it like a man, and tell her you need to talk to her after school. Ask he what is wrong, and if the relationship is over. Tell her you need to know because she's making you feel bad, and you want to move on if she already has. If it is over, be respectful, don't try to force things to work, just tell her it was fun, you'd like to remain her friend (if you do), and move on. There's plenty of time for more serious relationships in the future. Good luck with that.

i think you should just tell her how your truly feeling, know your limit on how your tone is while addressing this to her. be honest to her and yourself. it's good that your being such an understanding boyfriend by letting her do her personal things and giving her personal space.

try to address the question like "do you think we have communication problems?" or "do you think..." Get her point of view first and see what she thinks of this, then tell her how you feel and whats hurting you.

hope this helps. Good luck.

i would just explain to her that you were looking forward to seeing her over spring break. also let her know that its fine you dont have to hang out all the time, but she should have told you she was busy so you could make plans with your friends. if you really love her then let her know and tell her you dont want anything to ruin the relationship..hopefully she understands. good luck!

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sound like you need her more than she needs you. she's cheating dude !