joshie127

Hello everybody! I have a little problem that involves a choice I need to make later on down the line. Let me explain...

Here is a link to the foundation of this story. Please take a look before giving an answer so you will have all of the information. Thank you for understanding...

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201004...

Thanks for reading that! Now let me get into what really ended up happening. As it turns out the best case scenario did indeed happen. She was very busy!

From school work (out biggest priority) to Student Government (Going to Atlanta tomorrow). From thinking she was pregnant (my child to avoid confusion) to DMV problems. From running a blood drive (by herself) to filing divorce papers. She has been a very busy person. During the Spring Break she really did not talk to anyone, not even her closest friends. So now we come to today...

Today we get together and talk about what has been going on. I know that she has been a busy person, and I respect that fact. I do not go bug her 50 times a day asking to do stuff with her. She has her space. Today she tells me that she wants to "take a break." Her reason was because "she could not give me the attention that I deserve." So I said that I understand and that I needed time to really process what has happened.

We still need to work out the details on what it means to take a break. We decided that we will talk again once she gets back from Atlanta. Which is exactly one week from today. (She will be back Monday night.) So here are my questions I need to figure out before she gets back...

1. What should it mean to take a break? What would be fair to the both of us? We should not kiss, but should we hug? No holding hands, but can I reach out and touch her shoulder to show support?

2. We have been dating for about 5 months and it is just about to step into the "serious relationship" category. We are not sure if we should do that yet. I do love this beautiful girl. I can see myself putting a ring on her finger down the line when we are out of college.

She is still undecided if she can see us together down the line. Leaning towards and these are her words "slim chance that we can make it." But expressed interest in getting back together as well. (Mixed Messages) We will be transferring next semester to different school no more than 45 minutes away.

3. I think I should try not to say anything to her while she is away. Unless you think I should? I want to give her the time she needs to take care of her needs, but at the same time I don't want her to lose feelings for me, or think that I have lost interest. I love her... I lover her so much... I want to make my presence known. Am I clear on what I am trying to say?

4. Is there anything that I missed that I should consider?

5. What is your opinion about this overall situation?

Thank you so much for putting up with all of this information. This girl means a lot to me. I know I will do what I think is right, but I want to know from your knowledge of the situation. I will ask my friends as well. i have an idea of what to do... but I need help sorting out my thoughts. Don't be scared to request additional information!

One last fact... I am twenty years old and she is Thirty-two. We both think that this is not a BIG deal, but I think in the back of our minds it does effect us in a way. Our ages may be different, but we are both on the exact same page when it comes to school. We will both will have our double majors (AA's in a Junior College) by the end of this semester. Mine are Psychology/Philosophy hers are English/History.

Thanks again,

Joshie127

Here is my problem, and my questions are in the last paragraph. Thank you so much for reading.

We are both on Spring Break right now. March 26th- April 4th.

The last time I saw her was March 25th on Thursday when she got out of class. I was there waiting for her (as expected) and I gave her a pretty red rose. (My grandmother was in the hospital and while I bought her flowers I though I would buy my girlfriend one as well.) She was happy to see me and I walked her to her car and I told her that I probably would not see her until Wednesday. (I was going out of town.) She said that was okay since she had a lot of things to take care of.

While I was out of town (Monday- Wednesday) I tried calling her on the Tuesday. No answer... I have not spoken to her since that last time I saw her. I needed to get a hold of her because we had planned to spend the next three days together after I got home. (My parents were out of town.)

I called her the next day Wednesday and she answered! but she told me that she had to much going on and she had to cut our plans short. That was fine I told her that school work was very important. The next day (Thursday) I get a text at 7:30 A.M. saying that her mother hurt herself. and she would not be able to spend time with me that day nor the next. That was also fine... She needed to spend time with her family.

I called her on Friday in the afternoon, and she just sounded so busy, with school work and what not I have no reasons to doubt her. She told me that she would call me tomorrow and maybe we could make plans for Easter Sunday. She never called me on Saturday, so I called her around 7 P.M. No answer...

So now were are here at today, April 4th, Sunday morning. I just woke up and my Spring Beak is almost gone. I don't mind my girlfriend being busy and all, but I want a heads up so I can make other plans. I don't want to be waiting for her to become available. we had set assigned days to be together and she just blew all of them off. I am just really sad and hurt about it...

Some other details about our relationship. We have been dating since late October, and never really been in a fight. I am just having trouble communicating with her,

Here is what I want answered. I don't know what I want to say to her when I call her next. My feelings are hurt because she could not make time for me. I am worried about her, and our relationship. How do I address these issues without sounding like I am attacking her? I love her very much and I just want her to understand where I am coming from.

Thank you all so much for your input and patience.

Alright let me lay out the situation for all of you before you answer. Thank you for your patience.

1. My girlfriend and I have started using Birth Control 3 months ago.

2. We both do not like using condoms, and she only wants to take pills. No shots, patches, etc.

3. I do not know what she is exactly on now, but we are both not happy with the side effects. I know we got it from Planned Parenthood, and that it is a low dose.

4. The two main side effects are decreased libido, and we have to use lubrication(KY) because she no longer can "get wet" or vasocongestion does not occur. When we have to take a break "hold on baby I need to get my lube" really ruins the moment. Same reason why we don't like condoms. We lost the spontaneous-ness of our sex life.

5. The biggest kicker is that foreplay no longer has an effect on her. She used to finish 3-4 times when we "fool around". That has not been happening either, which really hurts my self confidence.

Our sex life has went from spectacular to almost non-existent since we started this birth control. Going off the pill is also not an option, we have had to use Plan B 5 or so times in a 4 month period. We love to have peace of mind.

I know there is some birth control out there that is right for us. That is why I come to you. What birth control method do you ladies utilize? What would you recommend for us to try next?

I know we went to Planned Parenthood to get our first batch of birth control, but I am will to pay almost any price to get the right birth control. So money is not a factor. If you need more information please ask.

Thank you so much for your input.

Aside from having peace of mind, we are having trouble enjoying sex.

She can not produce vaginal lubricant on her own. Which we can deal with with the use of KY Jelly. Also she can not finish-- have an orgasm.

She says she fine with that... (Crazy right?) But I do not think it is fair. I can not enjoy sex as much if it is one sided like that. I want to have the satisfaction of seeing her finish.

Before we started this, these problems were nonexistent. I have tried different things, and we have both decided there is something biological in the works. Any ideas? She is already on a very low dose of birth control.

We have explored alternate methods, but she does not like them as much...

Thank you for your help and advice.

I have a huge party coming up and I want to be the best House I can be. I just can not decide which blazer to go get at the store.

PLEASE keep in mind that price is not a factor. I want to achieve the most authentic look I can.

Thank you for your time. If possible can we get this answered ASAP! I will choose my best answer sometime tomorrow if I can.

We first have a nice black one...

http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?ci...

Then the gray one which is also nice...

http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?ci...

I have a huge party coming up and I want to be the best House I can be. I just can not decide which blazer to go get at the store.

PLEASE keep in mind that price is not a factor. I want to achieve the most authentic look I can.

Thank you for your time. If possible can we get this answered ASAP! I will choose my best answer sometime tomorrow if I can.

We first have a nice black one...

http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?ci...

Then the gray one which is also nice...

http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/product.do?ci...

Does anyone know what kind of blazer it is?

I have been looking around for one in stores, but none really strikes me as "his". I have also been searching the web, but nothing really comes up.

Your input is most appreciated. Thank you!

Hello everybody!

I just met this lady last week. We have been talking on and off during this time period. The last time I said anything to her was last night. I would like to say something tonight that would concern the upcoming weekend. I am unsure if I save it for tomorrow or tonight?

I just have this feeling I am pouring on to heavily right now. Well... just the feeling I am talking to much. We are both not big on talking over the phone so texts it is.

Should what I am looking for is someone here to tell me ti is okay to say something tonight.

Thank you!

O and whoever gets me the answer before 9:30 will get the best answer.

I have my legal name John Spencer, and I wish to obtain the alias of Scott Armstrong.

What are the legel procedures I would have to go through to do this? I have been searching for answers all morning and I have turned up "Just do it".

I am planning on moving out of the state to start a new life. The next step for me is to get a new name, but I still want the option to come home with my old name.

Where do I start and how do I do this?

I have my legal name John Spencer, and I wish to obtain the alias of Scott Armstrong.

What are the legel procedures I would have to go through to do this? I have been searching for answers all morning and I have turned up "Just do it".

I am planning on moving out of the state to start a new life. The next step for me is to get a new name, but I still want the option to come home with my old name.

Where do I start and how do I do this?

I have my legal name John Spencer, and I wish to obtain the alias of Scott Armstrong.

What are the legel procedures I would have to go through to do this? I have been searching for answers all morning and I have turned up "Just do it".

I am planning on moving out of the state to start a new life. The next step for me is to get a new name, but I still want the option to come home with my old name.

Where do I start and how do I do this?

I have my legal name John Spencer, and I wish to obtain the alias of Scott Armstrong.

What are the legel procedures I would have to go through to do this? I have been searching for answers all morning and I have turned up "Just do it".

I am planning on moving out of the state to start a new life. The next step for me is to get a new name, but I still want the option to come home with my old name.

Where do I start and how do I do this?

My friend played this song last night and he had no idea what it was called. All he could tell me was the artist was Jay-z.

The song starts off what sounds like a classical tune. I have no clue what it is.

Can someone help me?

It is a .avi file and I can not seem to import it to iTunes.

I want to add this movie but I can not seem to add it.

I click File>Import, File>Add File To Library, and I have tried to click and drag.

Is there anyway I can add this file?

Maybe if I changed the file type. Could that help?

If so what file types would work?

I am getting ready for college football next year.

I am a senior in high school and I have played football for 3 years. I wanted to take a year off for school and to train for my freshman year.

I want to be able to make a field goal from at LEAST the 35 yard line.

Any suggestions on training methods?

I am pretty sure LE stands for Luxury Edition, and S is Sports edition I think. I want to know what CE stands for. I also want to know their differences. (Just getting my point across.)