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Talking to much. Appropriate tonight or tomorrow?
Hello everybody!
I just met this lady last week. We have been talking on and off during this time period. The last time I said anything to her was last night. I would like to say something tonight that would concern the upcoming weekend. I am unsure if I save it for tomorrow or tonight?
I just have this feeling I am pouring on to heavily right now. Well... just the feeling I am talking to much. We are both not big on talking over the phone so texts it is.
Should what I am looking for is someone here to tell me ti is okay to say something tonight.
Thank you!
O and whoever gets me the answer before 9:30 will get the best answer.
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Girls generally make plans well in advance so it may be too late...
Also take it from me...just went through this. Almost identical situation and I guess I contacted her too much because she's backed off...
I'd let it rest my friend!
- 1 decade ago
Hey! I know how you feel when you say you think you may be pouring on heavily right now, because since you guys are just starting to date and get to know each other, it's hard to know what to say and when to say it. I think you should text her as soon as you want and say hey I was thinking maybe I could take you out next weekend if you're not doing anything. And if she has something to do, or says she does, then stop right there, don't say "okay how about next week?" because then that would be agging it on. If you think you may be talking too much then don't text as often and maybe try to see her in person more than texting. And unless you know she doesn't like talking on the phone you could try calling her in the evenings. I think you're doing fine if you have the concern, and I hope everything goes well for you :)
- 1 decade ago
If you have the feeling you are pouring it on too heavily then you probably are. Tomorrow might even be too soon depending on how much more often you feel you are contacting her as opposed to her contacting you. Which sucks cause then most likely you won't be able to hang out this weekend.
I would suggest waiting till she contacts you. It might be a while but it will put you in control. If a week goes by then you can follow up. If you feel she likes you more then you like her then you can contact her tonight and get that first date firmed up as soon as possible. Relationships are all about equilibrium and if she feels you like her more then she likes you, you will be out of the picture before you know what hit you.
Source(s): http://www.how-to-get-girlfriend.doctortomlove.com... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jx_p8SfPZYw - Lee KLv 41 decade ago
Seems like you answered youre own question ,just relax and save it ,maybe for next week even ?? If you think its not right,,,then????