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is this love or lust ?
I lost my virginity to my ex bf, & at first i didnt think too much of it and after it happened i felt like i didnt care as much but after he broke up with me i couldnt stop crying, i lost like 20 pounds, i couldnt go to school & i had so much anxiety, so im not sure if i was inlove or what? after some time i had messed around with another guy i used to date a while back and again after we had sex i felt like i didnt care about him at all, but now that he's gone i feel like i miss him so much and that i need him around ? So What Are These feelings i'm having, why do i feel so miserable after it's over ? do u think i ever loved them ?
BTW he broke up with me for another girl & i swear it a girl who is fat and i dont know why cuz it seems like he's always had a thing for fat chicks and im a skinny blonde and his new gf is the jealous type & doesnt give him space and i was never like that, he says he left me because his family hates me because im bisexual but 3 days later he had a new gf so i feel like he made it up
5 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Wouldn't go as far as to say love,
But I think you miss the companionship and the physical bonding you had with them.
- 1 decade ago
At first it was lust than it turned into love. When it's just lust you wouldnt be crying you would have had anxiety you wouldn't have lost emotional weight. You love him. Why did he even break up with you. If yo man really loved you he wouldn't have broken up with you. There's so many shells on the shore(It's the same as there's many fish in the sea).. move on girl. He deff don't deserve you.
- 1 decade ago
This is called the rebound phase
he was just the rebound guy because you felt so miserable you felt as if you needed a guy to be there a guy to make you feel good and fill in the spot you didn't love him and probably there was no lust he was just the rebound
- 1 decade ago
your the kind of girl who doesn't have casual sex. sex is a big deal for you. so yeah, it'll always be "love" in your case.
don't have sex till your sure.
Source(s): your bi? okay, i take my answer back. you cry a lot because you have ISSUES and need professional help. - How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
