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I wanna write him an E-Mail......but one he never will forget.....please i need help!?

I posted the question, about my boyfriend in the States (Army), and me here in Germany, about his phone who was off every weekend, and he said its not working for 7 weekends, but during the weeks he told me how much he love me and cant wait to see me again, and last weekend again his phone was off, and when he turned his phone back on he send me a text message, ""That he is done with me , i should leave him alone. And why i were thinking that we were dating (we were together for 2 years, he lived with me)........

3 Days ago, i was surfing in the internet, and found pictures of his Unit, at a ceremony, and there was a picture , of him and his girlfriend , arm in arm.....................,

Now i wana write him something, something he will never forget......

but i need help!!!!! Please.................................

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I was also in the Army and stationed in Germany until 2005. It can be hard to maintain a long distance relationship. Every long distance relationship I took at stab at eventually failed. It may be harder on the both of you in the end and you can trust when I say that he hasn't forgotten you, he probably just feels that it would be better if both of you understand that distance can absolutely break hearts.

    If you want to write a letter to him, I would suggest first writing a Relationship Pros and Cons list to yourself. Don't think only of the positive times you shared together, but also reflect on the times that weren't so good. Be brutally honest. If after the list is completed you find that you have more Pros than Cons, write the letter and include honest ways to improve/overcome the negatives.

    Best of Luck. Honesty is the best policy in this situation.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry, but you can't. He's already forgotten. The amnesia came on over the weekend... He was just keeping you in reserve until he knew he had a going thing with the local girl. Too bad. But you did have warning, all those weekends with the phone off.

    There's nothing you can say to him that will make him change his mind, make him feel bad, or restore your lost dignity. Silence will help with the dignity part. Anything else will likely wind up spread all over the internet to embarrass you for years, so don't do it. For yourself. Don't even waste your time on it.

    I'm sorry for your hurt feelings and your anger. But don't write or send anything to this ex. It will haunt you and not in a good way. The best revenge is just to be happy in your own life. Go do that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The only kind of message you could send that would get any reaction from him, is to shock him by wishing him good luck and telling him how relieved you are that he's out of your life. Tell him you had already met someone and just didn't know how to tell him, so he really did you a favor, There is no way you can make him feel guilty or regret what he's done. At least have the satisfaction of keeping your dignity and sending him a message he never expected to get.

  • 4 years ago

    i will not write a poem maximum days, yet then now and again thought will come and that i will get lower back on the right song. it really is precisely what's going to ensue to you, because i don't think of you'd be waiting to end writing. wish you're feeling somewhat extra effective. x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Right now you may feel you'll get some satisfation out of telling him what you think but it really will do you know good ...just give him something to laugh about...don't do it...Find someone else...I'm sure if you look around there's some guy out there that would like to spend time with you...

    Source(s): see http://www.brokenlovehelp.com… to seek more help and guidance if you are unhappy in your relationship
  • 1 decade ago

    He is not a real man. He can't even end the relationship with a woman like a man. From now on, let his girlfriend to babysit him and change his diapers. You did your part.

  • 1 decade ago

    let me tell you from woman to woman.. an american guy will not care about a letter a text or email from the ex.. he might not even open it.. save yourself the time and move on.. dont live in hate for him cause he doesnt care, he has a gf, prob had her all along .. so he is an a..hole and doesnt even deserve any more attention...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It won't help. You'll still be torqued and he won't care. Better not to waste the time. Just get on with your life right now and be happy you haven't wasted any more time on him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Child support.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It won't help anything. As cliche as it sounds, just move on. He knows he's a jerk as much as he ever will.

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