I have a doubt about my wife's illegal relationship.?

If a man cheats, he will have a lot of excuses, same as woman.

If your wife is a housewife, is she always at home? Do you know where she is or what she is doing when you leave home for work? Does she talk about her day activities with you? You can try one day come home early without telling your wife, or take couple days off to spend with her, see what she react.

If your wife works, go to her office to invite her for lunch, or pick her up after work...

Do something like this, see what her react before you go to extreme. If your wife doesn't have a affair with someone else, and find out you hire someone to investigate her, then you will have real problem.

You want to hire a detective? Before you go to that extreme, I would talk to her. Look at her body language while you talk to her. Usually her lower body movements will give her away. (kinesics), like her leg will jerk involuntarily. But more importantly, she might actually tell you the truth!

You know her best. I might try taking the day off from work early, change your habits. Check her cell phone. Simpler things, like that.

If you still have doubts, maybe you can talk to a counselor. Tell your wife you are not feeling comfortable because she seems so different. Maybe you are feeling insecure about yourself and she is just changing as a person.

Detective services are very expensive, but I don't think they would misguide you. What is the point?

Good luck. (If this is not a joke.)

Mutual trust is the most important ingredient in a successful married life. If that is lost then there is no relationship. Rather than spending a fortune for hiring and firing a private eye why can't u sit back and analyse what went wrong and what is lacking in you so she has to take this path. First do that and rectify your draw backs, I am sure, if at all she is fkg another guy she will come back to you.

Your probably right about how you feel, when one person thinks the other is cheating, they most likely are, she also vould just be trying t chaange things up a bit but honestly i doubt it. My advice is for you to open the phone book and find lie detecter test, im not exactly sure what to look under. It shouldn't be to expenseive, i think around 200.00 but if it is worth it to you then i say you should do it. See if she is even willing to do it and if not it's 100 % that she is cheating because if she wasn't then it wouldn't be a big deal and she would want to take it just to prove you wrong.

You could hire a private eye, but it will get pricey after a while.

If you really want to know, just take a day off & you follow her around for the day & just observe. Rent another car to use, don't use your own so your not easily spotted. I would sit back & wait for her to make a mistake.

you dont need any detectives for this purpose..you simply install a call recording software on her cell phone without telling her..and find out in the evening where she has called and about what..

there are sum softwares too that can send you a copy of the msgs to your cell phone,those messages which she has sent to any other person..

How can you doubt your wife's fidelity just by observing her lip movements? You are really wierd.Ever heard of something called TRUST? Divorce her immediately.She's better off without you.

i think you have to ask her in very soft spoken language. and may be u should not ask to her u have to hire a house maid for your house for one month than say her to give all the reports and you have to chek her mobile but not infront of her

My brother, you first consult with a phycatiric doctor before doing anything.

First TALK to her. UNDERSTAND Her. No need all those craps mentioned in the questions.