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We are not talking right now?

What can two people accomplish when they don’t talk to one another when there is a problem? This girl tells me that we need do distance ourselves because we are having problems between one another. Now she has text me a couple times because I was and still is on the no contact rule. But how will anything get solved, the only thing it’s doing is making thing worst by not talking. I really want to work things out but she is so hard to reason with, in a couple weeks should I text her and try again to work things out.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well after a couple weeks if you truly want to be with her and there wasn't a big big thing between you both just text her "look i know we hit a hard spot and that you want space but what can i do to help, i mean i care and want to be with you and want to understand what we can do to handle the situation at hand?" that's what i would do but not talking can cause more problems learned from experience.

  • 1 decade ago

    Let her cool off and call her up, see if she is willing to talk. I know for me, I need at least a day or so, depending on how mad i ma to cool off before I can even think straight. Maybe she just needs to think about other things right now. Give her a week and call her. If she is still not willing to talk then you need to ask if she still wants to be in the relationship with you. Communication is number one is relationships. It won't work is there is no communication. Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    how long have you not talk to her if its been couple days then things might cool off give it a try text her see if she willing to work things out

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