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My boyfriend is not sexually aggressive; I have to initiate everything every time. How do I?

suggest to him to be aggressive once in a while without hurting his feelings/making him feel like I'm making him out to be inadequate? He's kind of a shy guy, but we've been together for months now and I don't think he has to fear rejection.

Don't get me wrong, once we're getting it on he's great, but I just don't get why I have to be the one to initiate it every time.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If he's shy he probably just doesn't want you feeling like hes taking advantage of you. Honestly, just ask him why he doesn't, and say that you wish he did - just make sure he knows that you'd enjoy it, and not feel taken advantage of or anything like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    listen, sister, let me tell you the truth aout your "shy" boyfriend. He is a gay rapist.I heard he is wanted for animal sodomy in four states. I think with you, he just wants to settle down, make you want im bad and then BOOM, you're in the middle of a four-way with you, him, some goat, and a llama.

    Let me tell you, honey, I've been there. I've done some pretty terrible things for drugs, and that was one of them.

    Stay safe. Get tested.

    One Love.

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