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Prom is this weekend, what if?

I'm going with my boyfriend who's a junior to prom (I'm a sophomore) on Saturday. I feel like he might tell me he loves me, but we're just in high school so I don't think it's real. At least, I know I'm not in love now, I just really like him. But if he says he loves me, what do I say back? I don't want to say I love you too, b/c I don't want to say it unless I mean it. So yeah, what should I say if this happens??

Also, I'm pretty self concious and I don't like PDA too much, so this means I'm not comfortable dancing in front of people and I won't want to kiss him or touch a lot at prom..... I'm going to do my best to dance a little and try not to care what people think, cause I know they don't really care lol.

Any suggestions? Or suggestions for prom in general :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    it's prom he will probably say it but if he does just let loos and give him a little kiss then tell him that's great and your happy but your just not ready to say it to him yet but you really like him and you will maybe eventually be able to say it he just has to wait a little longer. if he truly does love you he will wait if not he'll freak but chances are he'll come back and say sorry that he freaked and that he understands. hope I helped.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you tell him about the whole PDA thing before prom then he might be put off saying he loves you. Also, if you avoid any really intimate moments alone, he won't get an opportunity to say it. The worst thing you can do if he does say it, is just say thank you, look really happy, and act like you just forgot to say it back. If he gets annoyed that you didn't say it, then just get annoyed back! He shouldn't expect you to feel that way about him just cos he does about you.

  • 1 decade ago

    this is always the problem when we have true love we can never see it..but if u feel like ur not ready at least be fare enough to let him know how u feel instead of having him fall in love and you don't love him back ..that hurts alot.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well well well.

    the first week of dating my bf he told me he loved me

    i stood there not replying

    then i said im sorry but its too soon im not one of those girls

    that you can say ily to then expect sex

    4months later i said it

    we've been together for 2 yrs 6mnths

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him great but you just really dont feel that way right now He will understand.

  • Dustin
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Don't tell him you love him. High school kids don't know what love is.

  • 1 decade ago

    its prom! let loose and have some fun!

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