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what should i do im confused..?

i met this guy on the internet txt him everyday know him about 4-5months we been on 3 dates first date we was just getting to know eather other better i took him to the park lol! second date we went to chinatown to eat he held my hand i was supprised but i didnt let go.. then that evening i went bk to his house he kissed me he kept touching me especially the places where i didnt want him to touch me he wanted me to have sex even tho im stil v and proud im only 19 and he is too and he ask me if i would be his gf but i didnt say anything cos he was moving on to me to fast i didnt no what to think. i told him and i kept pushin him and he says he respect that. he said he loves me already but i couldnt say it cos its too soon.and he said he see's us having a long relationship.everywhere we go he treats me he pays for stuff.3rd date we went cinema it was nice,again he kept touching me when i didnt want him too i dnt think he respects what i say sometimes he told me how he feels about me and hes crazy for me and wants to be with me forever he rushing me too fast but i not crazy for him yet i just feel like we friends but i know he wants to be more..everytime im not with him i miss him,i miss his cuddles..he told me that he had sex before with previous partners but i dnt wanna have sex with him yet cos its too soon and im not ready im not planning to either.he always show love toward me by kissing me givng me cuddles wheneva we are out and txts i always think about him..i dnt no if i want him...because hes rushing me to fast i want things to slow down between us..i told him how i felt about being friends and he said he wait and respect that but deep down i no he wants to be more..i wanna get to know him better what should i do??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    He's just using you, because if a guy is moving too fast on the first or second date, he's just trying to see how far he can get...sorry :/

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him the honest truth. The way you explained him made it look like he just wants to take your virginity. Tell him that you are not ready and that hes moving to fast for you. Tell him that he needs to slow down. I think you should wait till you are in love and know that he is the one for you before you lose your virginity too. cause if you lose it to him and find out he just wanted you for that, you will regret giving him something so special that you only give once.(the virginity, not the sex) I hope this helped. Good luck! =)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    really should be more direct about where you dont want to be touched, you have to say it sternly to him because otherwise he'll just keep doing it. And he says he loves you already, thats too fast, kinda creepy, maybe he's saying that to get in your pants.

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