my boss' tell me i suck, my wife tells me im not worth effort. at what point am i allowed to be discouraged?

A new job and a new wife springs to mind, and possibly a good sense of humour.

Take a good strong look at yourself, then pick yourself up and start all over again.

Life is an adventure, take part and don't ever be discouraged.

Even if you only have ex bosses and ex wives you must have something going for you. At some stage they saw something in you maybe you need to look at the changes you have gone through since you got married or started your job.You might be hiding your light under a pile of crap and resentment. That can happen when you try to exist in a world of put downs.Try doing something nice for someone for no reward and see what a smile or a thanks can do to your view of life.

When you come home and find your wife on her knees in front of your boss, and he tells you to go back outside and wash his truck if you want to keep your job.

New Job..New Wife....Start at the end of the line! Sorry

Find another job...and tell your wife that if she doesn't shut-up and help instead of complaining you'll replace her too....and then DO IT. No talk...action!

Try to get some constructive feedback. Why do they say that? What can you do to change that situation?

Confront them.

Any point, however you shouldn't let others opinions get to you, they can go **** themselves, im sure your not a bad person!

hahaha thanks for the smile... ummmm but never get discouraged you are allways a gem in a pot of rocks to god and thats all that matters... **** the rest f em

*Hands you a gun and a bottle of Jack Daniels*

right about now.