what if someone you like hurt you?

Hmmmm

- you get jelous of his girl friend

- you hate his new gf

- you want to be around him

- you want to be friends or "friends with benefits" !!!!!!

be honest with yourself are you sure that you don't want to be in the other girl's place? ( i mean be his gf) .... if ur answer is no .... think again ... then why did you get jelous ??

i guess what i'm trying to say is if you know what you want EXACTLY then you can make better decisions!!

anyways, to get closer to him... just try to show no emotions, act cool and wait for the right moment...every once in awhile talk briefly to him or maybe to his gf ( if you can ;-) ) just a hi can be a good start ( if you really want to show him that you want nothing more than a simple frienship ofcourse, but if you want more then talk only to him and maybe showing your jelousy might work!!) ... then if he asked tell him that you just wanna be friends (if you think he might like the othe girl then you better keep the "benefit" part to you while he still is around the new girl !!)

this might help you to keep calm : It maybe a good time for you to see through him !!! i mean you may be able to find out what kinda guy he is to his gf when she is not around, and then you can see if you still want to be his FRIEND or more than JustAFriend or may be Nothing !!!

;-) good luck

•If you belive in destiny then you have know that things happen when they are meant to be. People part for reasons beyond human comprehension but the reality remains if you are meant to love each other and be with each other, it will happen. That's the power of destiny. Love always wins. Love is important and only it counts.

I would wait a little bit for everything to calm down before trying to be friends.

If he has a girlfriend why should he be friends with benefits with you?

that's like so wrong!

if he has a girlfriend then you should just ask him to be friends again..

Just tell him how you feel period. If your straight up no beating around the bushes he'll know.