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How do I deal with this... a jealous friend?
Ok so recently I've become really good friends with this girl Allie. The problem is, Allie has always been bffs with a girl named Chelsea. But Allie doesn't really like Chelsea that much because she is always mean to her and starting drama. So as me and Allie become good friends, her and Chelsea are drifting farther and farther apart. I always thought me and Chelsea were friends, but now I hear that she's super pissed about Allie and I become good friends and that she keeps bad-mouthing me. And also this boy Randy just asked me to go to a dance wth him and I said yes, but now all of a sudden I found out that Chelsea has a huge crush on Randy! So maybe this girl has reason to hate me, I've stolen her bff and her crush, but I never meant to! I don't know what to do. I want to be friends with Chelsea, and she acts like we are friends to my face, but I know that she actually doesn't like me. I'm so frustrated because it feels like as I get a new friend, I get a new enemy. I don't know what to do! Please help!
3 Answers
- Patricia GLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
You can't steal a person from another. You should talk to Chelsea and try to work things out. e open and honest about what you feel and about your new friendship with Allie. If you would still like to remain close friends then tell her. Don't interfere with the relationship between Chelsea and Allie. That is best left for them to deal with. She may just feel that she is loosing you. Or she may be the type of person that needs to be the center of attention or she don't want to play. There are adults that behave that badly to. As far as the boy goes, talk to her about that also, he asked you out and not her. If you really care about her and she really likes him then bow out of the date. Guys come and go. Girlfriends are far more important.
- 1 decade ago
You didn't really 'steal' her bff or Crush. Its not like you stopped Allie talking to Chelsea, she still had the option to if she wanted to. Chelsea is just pissed with you because people are picking you over her. And about Randy, you couldn't steal him because he wasn't hers. Stealing him would be if she was with him and then he dumped her for you.
- 1 decade ago
In front of people who support you, if she's around-just throw it out there and quit all the kid stuff. Ask her if she has issues with you(ofcourse she's gonna say she doesn't but continue). You may not want to be friends with her either after all the talk, but let her know you don't have issues with her if you don't have any. But this way, she won't feel comfortable talking about you anymore to the same people who heard you ask if she has issues with you. You be the bigger person and let her get over it, but don't be cold-hearted or it'll come back to you and bite you. Be genuine.
