Is it ok to break up with my bf?

Being in love does not mean accept all abusive language and oppression of your boyfriend, you do not really have to break with him but you need to have a serious conversation about it with him. He either stop or you will break up with him. Remember this is just the beginning if you do not stop it now you never will, Do you really want that for your life?

He might be your other half, but sometimes because we know this is the person you want to be we (humans) become blind. Open your eyes, listen to your heart, but do what is best for you.

Good luck

BREAK UP.

thats a total lack of respect and it will only get worst. if he showed so much disrespect for such an insignificant problem he is trouble. all wife beaters cry after doing it. all of them start after marriage. maybe he would never lay a finger on u, of that i cant be sure, but im sure that with marriage disrespect will only be more and more frequent.

im married for 6 years now and i had lots of problems with my wife but we never dared calling eachother names. respect is more important than love in a marriage. love is ambiguous and nobody is sure of how others feel about it, but respect is either there or not. no feelings involved in respect. no blahg blah blah. he disrespected u and he did it bad.

if u stay with him u will be accepting a lifetime of that kind of treatment followed by tears. some think they are suposed to tolerate disrespect and marry then get tired and divorce....others never divorce and live mediocre lives in the name of love and teenage promisses.

your choice. depends on your personality.

imagine him treating u like that 10 days a month for the rest of your life. if u can tolerate it its ok.

if u cant see yourself tolerating that behaviour u are looking at a future divorce for sure.

and then u will probably remember me as the first 1 to predict your future on yahooanswers.

NO. Do not stay with this guy! This is the beginning of control, manipulation and the destruction of your self esteem. NO man should speak to you the way you described it is abusive and only escalates as time passes.. BEWARE he WILL become the victim and use every word and promise you made to him against you... My best advise is to get out now while you still have self esteem and dignity and aren't stuck for financial reasons or children... Good Luck

I would say talk about it with him again. Tell him that he better get his act together, or you will dump him. If he promises to act better, give him another chance. If he acts immature about it and starts to yell, dump him. If he starts to cry again, maybe give him one more chance, but if he still treats you badly, definately dump him. I would not sugggest taking a break because he will probably move on to someone else. Guys are not that patient. Anyways, good luck and i hope everything works out for you! =]

~Amanda~

Once again, inform him about how it makes you feel.

Tell him that its not right for him to do it, and you aren't going to sit arounf and take it,

Tell him that if hes going to continue being like that, that you will in fact leave him.

I'm sorry that youre having this problem, cause being in love is just so wonderful.

I hope he can change for you, good luck :)

CHEMISTRY!! No, but in all seriousness this tends to happen after a while. Dont know what to suggest i suppose a temporary "break" would be in order and...see what happens.

Someone who loves you should NEVER call you names. If you put up with such vileness from him, then you're only asking for worse.

It sounds like you're handling a toddler rather than dating a man

what a dic*head, he feels its okay to treat you like crap, yet when you confront him he "crys" like g*yboy. Tell him straight that he has anger problems and that he should get help asap!

Break up with him.. It's the best and healthiest way to live. bye.