Does it mean anything when my roommate is not wearing a bra?

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I'm a 29 year old male, and my roommate is a 31 year old female in a long distance relationship.  We've been roommates for about a year now, and have gotten along pretty well.  Recently, I've noticed she started to not wear any bra in the common area.  I know it probably feels much better to not wear any bra, since her breast size is well above average.  But does it mean anything else? or am I just thinking too much?  How can I subtly ask her this? or is this the kind of question you don't ask straight up to a woman?

BORED · Accepted Answer

it really just means she is relaxing. It sucks having big breasts and keeping them locked in all day.

MelaniesMommy2010 · Answer

okay I never wear a bra myself I am 21 and probably should since for one i'm pregnant and two I have gotten a bit bigger but anyways I am a small breasts woman and it feels comfortable to not be stranded in a bra and that is probably her reason.

? · Answer

Dude she just isn't wearing a bra! Its like you feeling comfortable enough to walk around with just a top and boxers on. It means nothing lol

Anonymous · Answer

don't ask. it's nothing. i am 31 and a female. she is just probably comfortable around you since she has been living with you for a year. if she is not wearing both a bra AND shirt then she wants to bang.

Jodi · Answer

if you are good enough friends with your room mate go ahead and ask....otherwise take it from me..it feels much better with it OFF.  I get home and that's the first thing I shed even before shoes.  It's probably just a question of comfort

Kenito · Answer

Ted,

I don't think it means anything or signals anything... anymore than the times you go commando.  Has no bearing on straight or gay.

Maybe it means she will have hanging boobs in 30 years... who knows?

Ask or don't ask... she will just tell you it is for comfort and ease.  Or all her bras are dirty.

Crim Liar · Answer

It just means she's comfortable in your presence, if you want her to remain in her comfort zone it's probably best to say nothing.  If she meant more I think it would be a little more blatant.

Anonymous · Answer

Just ask her be blount.. if she gets mad that is her fault.. either she sees you as one of the girls.. or she wants you to notice her and tease you.. Either way is not cool.. what if you walk around her with a hard on all the time.. Is that acceptable?? Nooooooo... She would say something to you.. You would be a pervert to her.. No double standard....

DINAAA · Answer

well don't ask nothing it's the best cause then what if she blames you for looking! even though i know you can't help it! just let time pass and you'll notice her true intentions if it to try to seduce you, or she just wants to be comfortable

pj · Answer

perhaps a lack of respect for gravity....that's what my wife tells me when i refuse to wear a bra.....but then i got a 50 year headstart on it, so.........

much love and hope.  pj

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