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How to get a girl to like me?

I like this girl, but it's pretty apparent she doesn't like me. Every time I talk to her I always sound like a dork, and she has a witty comeback. I guess you could say I'm a likable person, I play guitar, sports, good grades. What is missing to get her to fall for me?

Update:

I also talked to her friend to see if I could get some more info. She said she just wants to be friends apparently. Maybe I'll wait awhile to see if she'll start liking me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You should try to talk to her more. But either way you can't really force her to like you...Either you have the personality she likes or you don't. I know alot of nice guys, but it takes a little more to make me actually like them, and I've already decided in my head which ones I could potentially like and the ones I wouldn't like no matter what. Just try to be yourself and be nice to her and if she doesn't like you for who you are then she was never worth your time. Look harder for your perfect match. =)

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes we like what we CANT have bud....she might just not feel the same way!

    But if you think there is some hope, than i would say quit being so nice and talking to her like a dork...next time shes got something smart to say, have a witty comeback for her...maybe it will get her attention

  • Maybe she's just trying to be funny? Not mean- but sarcastic?

    I guess start off slow, talking about school at first, then "coincidentally" remembering a funny story, and telling her? Ask her what her favorite sports team is? Musician? Band?

    ...If you like the same music you could ask to go to a concert... I love 'em!

    But even if you two become friends, or go into a 'flirtationship'- you should come out and say you like her or ask her out... Maybe even ask to study together or something?

    If all is at loss, it's hers too!

    Goodluck, and I hope I helped!<3

  • 1 decade ago

    if you know that she doesn't like you and there's nothing to do about it , with all about that playing guitar, sports, and good grades, I am 100% sure that there is someone that likes you, she may even sit next to you and you haven't realized. Don't you always fall "in love" with just a nice face. But if this girl drives you crazy then try to get to know her more than you do now. LET HER SPEAK AND LISTEN that's what a girl likes and try different stuff.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm.. You sound kinda like a guy I know...

    Anyway you never know.

    She might like you, I say when you feel comfortable, tell her how you feel. It's worth a shot isn't it?

    But don't do it right away.

    If it's really that obvious she doesn't like you, then wait a while. Be nice to her, talk to her, show her what a great guy you are. You can't make her like you, but a little flirting never hurt anyone.

    Good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you're Trying too hard. Back off, try to add being a nicer person to your "repertoire", -and stop looking at her as the "only fish in the Sea..." Give her alittle time- & maybe she'll come Swimming your way... Good luck ! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just ask her out, but you seem a little young to be dating.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    follow her home, follow her when she goes out. show up at her front door uninvited. refuse to leave until the police are called. chicks love that ****.

  • 1 decade ago

    flowers!!!! be there for her on a bad day goodluck

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