I don't understand why my husband wants to play with my nipples for an hour or more?

Sorry to hear about your problem. Your husband is not a normal man. Most men will give their partner's breast some attention. But, your guy is a bit too obsessed with b00bs. Perhaps he has some type of emotional disorder caused by his mother. Its hard to say.

Maybe a marriage counselor or sex counselor would be able to help you out with this strange obsession he has. There is not a lot that we can do for you on this one..other than to tell you to put something on your nipples that tastes terrible. That may keep him off of them for a while.

GOod luck with him.

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Well if you are that late from your period then I would go to the doctor anyway. Whether you think you are pregnant or not. It could be stress or anything else... and if you have been sleeping more often maybe it has something to do with your blood sugar. I would approach it like, "hey doctor, I still haven't had my period and I'm concerned". Then, if you are pregnant you will be more excited. I don't think I had nipple changes that early on. I think I got that around 6 months or so... but you never know, every pregnancy is different! Why don't you try taking a home test tomorrow right when you wake up? Then make a dr. appointment. And yes, your mind CAN play severe tricks on you! I remember when I thought I was pregnant, I would even get morning sickness and get dizzy and the whole 9! So... I wish the best for you and your husband! God bless

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I don't understand why my husband wants to play with my nipples for an hour or more?

When I was dating him, I noticed he seemed obsessed with my nipples. He likes breasts, but his interest seems focused on my nipples. During foreplay, he wants to touch, lick, suck and pinch my nipples for a long time. Then during sex, same thing. Sometimes if sex lasts an hour or two, he will have...

Ask him if he wants his mother? That is bizarre, to focus more on this than sex, or to not want sex unless he can do that continually. What's worse is to tell you he will go to another woman if you won't do it, even if you are in pain. I'm not sure what makes him think that there's women out there just waiting for a man who wants to harm her nipples. I guess there might be some women like that. I'm pretty sure those women will want more than just that though. I don't mean to insult you, but he doesn't exactly strike me as a stud, or mature.

You probably won't like what I'm going to say, because I think you should leave him. He basically said that if you didn't give in, even though it hurts you, he will find another woman who likes this. That is mental cruelty, since he is threatening that if you don't let him be violent with you, he will find another who will allow him to be violent.

You are sore, raw, and in pain. You've refused sex, and his reaction is to be concerned that he won't get what he wants, the way he wants it. I don't know any man this obsessed with nipples, and other than a normal amount of play with them. He sounds like a very cruel person, and possibly dangerous.

There may be other things about him that are going to get worse if you stay with him. I think he might have issues involving his mother and being breastfed. It doesn't really sound like he wants sex, he wants to fondle and suck nipples like a baby.

I love Sam's answer! I agree that you need a a marriage counselor or sex counselor if you plan on staying with your husband. I don't think I could bring myself to stay in such a relationship, but I don't know your circumstances. I feel so sorry for you. I can't imagine being with a man who doesn't care if he hurts me, as long as he gets what he wants.

Sam is correct about your husband having some issue with his mother. Do you know what his relationship with her is like? Does it seem normal? I think there's clues there. That idea about putting something not so great tasting on your nipples is genius. Maybe not too much of whatever it is, because your husband sounds like he could have a temper issue too.

if it gets to the point where you're raw and in actual pain afterwards, then it's not normal. It's also not normal that he would threaten to find another woman if you don't want to have sex because you're sore. That's completely disrespecting your physical and emotional well-being. You're not supposed to want your partner to be uncomfortable physically or psychologically just so that you can get off. It may be that he said those things about finding a real woman because he got defensive, so maybe he himself realizes that there's something not quite normal about his nipple obsession.

I have to agree with Salacious. Your husband has a lot of mental issues involving nipples, and he doesn't care where he gets this desire satisfied, he says he will find a woman who wants that. In other words, it doesn't matter if you are intelligent, have feelings, or even if you are pretty.

I like breasts and nipples, but I'm not obsessed like that, and don't feel a need to continually focus on them during sex. You need to see a medical doctor and tell her/him what you've told us, because any man who has such a need to suck on nipples to the point of threatening you is unstable.

He doesn't have a "nipple fetish". He has a "Momma Fetish".

You re all acting as if something is wrong with this guy...he likes nipples, what the problem? I ve been married for 15 years and play with my wife s nipples about every day...she loves it as do I. If we re watching tv in bed together she s the first one to put a nipple in my mouth. Its very soothing to both of us and makes us feel closer. These is nothing at all wrong with that. If I were doing this with a woman other than my wife, yes, there might be a problem. She and I are very much in love with each other and we both enjoy it..