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Alright well in a previous question i asked how to get my friend back after I gave her a response to something she had said. She told me she was raped basically by giving pretty thorough clues and explaining the situation. So i believed her and I was trying to get her back. And i told her to her face "You've been raped you have to tell someone....you could be really hurt." She said no it's my choice to tell. So i went on my way. She tells me like a week later to just leave her alone and that she wasn't raped. I was shocked and asked her what really happened. She said she gave consent and she wanted to do it. She basically lied to all her friends and said she was raped. I don't know what to do now. Should i still be her friend and try to talk to her or not?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I don't understand the situation well, but ... every lie has a purpose or she just wanted or popularity was so lonely that I wish someone looked for she in the dark! Try to speak with her, sometimes there's nothing better than a friend! If it still does not solve anything, at least you tried!

  • 1 decade ago

    This is the problem with messing around with young girls. They don't know what they want and sometimes they do things like this. I had a GF pull this on me when I was young. She cheated on me then had second thoughts and claimed she was raped. The guy almost got sent to prison over it before she finally came clean. I suspect that something like this could be going on with her too. At least she's owning up to it. I'd stay away from her for a while though. She sounds like she's confused.

  • 1 decade ago

    This is not about rape, it is about lying. If she lied about something this serious what else would she lie about? Don't know about you, but lying is a no no in my world, not the little white lies we all tell, but these big lies are a deal breaker when it comes to friendship.

    You might be next on her victim.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like she was seeking for attention. Ask her WHY she would say something so serious. It's pretty sick lying about something like that, there must be some explanation. But it sounds like she wanted you guys to feel sorry for her. Talk to her. There might be something more to it, she sounds like she may have a few issues.

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