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Well my and my girlfriend have been going out for four months now and we were doing pretty good. But then it was going down hill. Since the beginning she couldn't really go out with me because i was 2 years older than her but then i found out another reason....her parents are racists. So i was okay with that for a little while, but then it started getting worst we couldn't do anything together, and she wasn't aloud over my house at all, and every time i when to her house (which wasn't often) her parents would be breathing down our necks. I really like her a lot, and i really don't want to break up with her because she said after 2 years she'll be going to college and then we can hang out whenever. She's 16 and i'm 18. What should i do?

Well my and my girlfriend have been going out for four months now and we were doing pretty good. But then it was going down hill. Since the beginning she couldn't really go out with me because i was 2 years older than her but then i found out another reason....her parents are racists. So i was okay with that for a little while, but then it started getting worst we couldn't do anything together, and she wasn't aloud over my house at all, and every time i when to her house (which wasn't often) her parents would be breathing down our necks. I really like her a lot, and i really don't want to break up with her because she said after 2 years she'll be going to college and then we can hang out whenever. She's 16 and i'm 18. What should i do?

Alright so here is the whole picture, i'm a college freshmen and i have met this really nice girl who is now a junior in high school. I have met her in early august and we are really hitting it off and we are connecting in great ways. But her parents don't want us to see each other or be together because i may be a distraction to her during school. I respect her parents, and i respect her, but i really do like her. She's an amazing person and i don't know what to do. Her parents will let us be together after she gets past 11th grade. I can take her to her prom and dances during her junior year too. Is waiting a whole year for her okay? I really do like her and i know i can wait for her, but should I really do it?

Alright well in a previous question i asked how to get my friend back after I gave her a response to something she had said. She told me she was raped basically by giving pretty thorough clues and explaining the situation. So i believed her and I was trying to get her back. And i told her to her face "You've been raped you have to tell someone....you could be really hurt." She said no it's my choice to tell. So i went on my way. She tells me like a week later to just leave her alone and that she wasn't raped. I was shocked and asked her what really happened. She said she gave consent and she wanted to do it. She basically lied to all her friends and said she was raped. I don't know what to do now. Should i still be her friend and try to talk to her or not?

Alright well my ex girlfriend and i broke up in december. She was my first girlfriend and i was a complete d!&k to her after the break up. She forgave me for that and we became so close after it. For 4 months we became so close, closer than when we were going out. But one day in late april she tells me that she has been raped. Never being in this situation before i didn't know what to say. I didn't want to believe her and all i said was wow continuously. She thought i was laughing when i really wasn't. I know she expected more from me, and i feel so bad, that when ever i see her i cannot help but cry. She hates me now and she has every right to, but i really want to fix this. I really want to gain her trust back, but i do not know how to do it. She means the world to me and i don't want to lose her. I really need help...

Alright well my ex girlfriend and i broke up in december. She was my first girlfriend and i was a complete d!&k to her after the break up. She forgave me for that and we became so close after it. For 4 months we became so close, closer than when we were going out. But one day in late april she tells me that she has been raped. Never being in this situation before i didn't know what to say. I didn't want to believe her and all i said was wow continuously. She thought i was laughing when i really wasn't. I know she expected more from me, and i feel so bad, that when ever i see her i cannot help but cry. She hates me now and she has every right to, but i really want to fix this. I really want to gain her trust back, but i do not know how to do it. She means the world to me and i don't want to lose her. I really need help...