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Can't see my girlfriend?

Alright so here is the whole picture, i'm a college freshmen and i have met this really nice girl who is now a junior in high school. I have met her in early august and we are really hitting it off and we are connecting in great ways. But her parents don't want us to see each other or be together because i may be a distraction to her during school. I respect her parents, and i respect her, but i really do like her. She's an amazing person and i don't know what to do. Her parents will let us be together after she gets past 11th grade. I can take her to her prom and dances during her junior year too. Is waiting a whole year for her okay? I really do like her and i know i can wait for her, but should I really do it?

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you like her then you should wait. If you don't wait it just means you don't like her as much as you thought you originally did. Nothing wrong with that. If you really want to make it work though, wait for her. I mean, you can still take her to dances, so it shouldn't be a problem. You're still kind of a "couple" but just not officially.

    Good luck! I hope things work out for you and her! :]

  • 1 decade ago

    if you can wait on her until 12th grade i think u should go for it at the right time. and since her parents say its ok to take her to her prom, dances, etc you should do what you can to keep that good connection and make sure you don't over step your boundaries because if you do then her parents might not care for you when it is okay. glad i could help>:)

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if you feel that strongly about her, then yes. Why not? I mean maybe keep your options just in case you meet someone else... I mean you are in college dude. Theres so many people there where you never know what's going to happen with them. But yeah otherwise, wait for her. I'm sure her parents would respect you more if you did.

    Good Luck!

    Can you please answer mine?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Being able to relate to this somewhat I wasn't to say yes, wait for her. However it will be hard and you...sadly don't know what she will do in terms of being faithful and/or not liking someone else; girls have a tendency to do that at that age.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Go with your gut feeling, if you think you could see a good relationship with her in the future wait it out :)

  • suz665
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It doesn't matter what I think. How much do you like her? You're already not dating, so you have nothing to lose by waiting.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you like her enough then yes... However idk how i would feel if i couldn't see my boyfriend at all during the whole year. Hopefully you'll at least be able to see her on weekends sometimes? Goodluck

    help?

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201009...

  • 1 decade ago

    if you feel it in your heart then yes, you should wait for her. (you guys can video chat too)

  • 1 decade ago

    hmhmhmh... personally for me i would not date some one in high school. cuz they can not do alot.. i mean u can try it out.. but i think it be better to find some one older..

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