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Trying to potty train my 3 year old, nothing works help?
I have a 3 year old. I been trying to potty train him for months nothing works. I tried using the game ideas & rewards stickers. he had peed in the potty a couple of times. then he doesn't do it after that. My son wants to be lazy. he doesn't tell us that he did a 1 or 2 and doesn't ask us to change him. we had asked him a lot of times to tell us and he never does. it's driving us nuts what should we do? we want force him, how do you force him to do it,do you think it's a good Idea ? The reason we are trying to potty train. because we have a newborn and diapers cost too much for the two of them. we are getting to that road where we can only afford for one of them. money is getting shorter and bill are stacking up. any help?
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Honestly boys tend to take longer to potty train. My four year old little brother just started to get the hang of it. My daughter was trained by two years old. Most girls want to be out of it right away. They like the idea of cute underwear and being big girls. My nephews who are three are also taking their time. One of them finally said they he wanted to use the toilet. He has been trying it for a few days but still has problems with number two, it tends to take a bit longer for that to become comfortable for them. The other one has zero interest in it and wont even bother saying anything about it. All children come to potty training on their own. You can't force the issue, if you do you could end up with him in diapers even longer. When he is ready it will happen. You can encourage it but don't get upset if he doesn't do it. Just give praise when he says something or tries. Tell him you like it when he uses the toilet like a big boy. Most of all be patient and it will happen. Hope that helps.
Source(s): Personal, family, friends, random baby articles. - Anonymous5 years ago
Obviously it's the bowels that are the root of this problem - she was peeing OK at first. So that's the thing to tackle first. Maybe you should try the old fashioned method. Escort her to the potty (or toilet!) every day at the same time, give her 5 minutes, and if she can't or won't do the doo, insert a child-size glycerin suppository and make her sit there until it takes effect. In a few days her body should start getting the message.
- 1 decade ago
You cannot force them if they are not ready. Some kids just aren't ready until after 3, and I've known a few boys who still had frequent accidents until 4+. There are some good reusable training pants that wash well and can even get disposable liners to make cleanup easier. They are more expensive now, but will last forever and you can even use them for your little one in a couple years.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
my son was in a similar situation...dont worry youll get there...I still couldnt get my some potty trained at 3 1/2....he was totally disinterested.....as a single mom it wasnt easy to always find the time to devote to it but I tried consistently every month....with still no results by age 4 I took him to a pediatric urologist and pediatrician..nothing was wrong with him..just stubborness....I went to a rewards system which didnt totally work.....I took the doctors advice and remained firm but loving and didnt punish ...I just kept at it....it was almost a battle of wills.....you cant force him to do it (although it might be nice)...you just have to have a mountain of patience and stay with it.....finally at 4 years and 6 months?...I got him out of diapers and got him to use the toilet....have patience....it will come.
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- 1 decade ago
Put the diaper in the freezer for a little bit, just until it is cold. Keep doing it every time you try and put one on and he will learn. :) Suggest the potty every time as the alternative, of course. It may seem cruel but sensory stimulation like that teaches very fast. Nobody said it had to be exteremely uncomfortable, either. Just enough so that he associates diapers with being more uncomfortable than the potty.
Source(s): Nanny - 1 decade ago
Stop putting Diapers on him, go buy the thick ones in the baby section at wal-mart. It sould take about 3 days but he'll get tired of having to stop what he's doing to change everytime he has a accident, just stay with it.
- CajunRedHotLv 51 decade ago
it might just be more worth it to buy the cheap cheap diapers and let him go for another 6 months and see if he's ready then. Alot of grocery stores have diapers cheaper than walmart, not sure where you ive but Dillons, or HEB, Super one foods, they have cheaper daipers. Seems like alot of stress, so maybe just give it a bit more time...some kids are like that and the only one affected is the poor parents who get stressed out;)
- 1 decade ago
Hello Veronica, I can help to potty training your son if you want my help. I had already a son that is potty trained. My email is stewandmatthew@yahoo.com