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Falling for someone else? Advice?
I've been dating this guy pretty seriously for almost 4 years now, and everything seems to be going smoothly; we argue sometimes, but never escalates into fights or anything, typical healthy couple behavior. I was working at an elementary school for one of my college classes and I met another guy. He seemed pretty cool so we added each other on Facebook and we would chat it up quite often. Well then I started hanging out with him(no, not cheating, strictly hanging out) and I've found that I really like him, and I can't get him out of my head. I'm having trouble finding my current boyfriend sexually attractive anymore and all I want is this new guy. I feel awful because my current boyfriend and I have built so much together and I don't want to give up on it and are planning to get an apartment together, but I can't think about anyone but the new guy...any advice? Or has anyone been in this situation before and is willing to share their experiences?
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- ?Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
You may be infatuated by this new guy. It's new and exciting. Your boyfriend is a 4 yr,. relationship and might not be as exciting as the interaction with this new guy. If you truly want to further your relationship with the new guy, you will have to break up with your boyfriend and take the risk that if things don't work out well with the new guy, that your old boyfriend may not want to take you back.
So, basically, you have a huge decision to make and it's not going to be an easy on.
Sometimes when we meet someone new it is exciting. In some cases it seems more exciting than your current relationship, but all new relationships are exciting in the beginning. Don't mistake infatuation with love. Make your choice very carefully and weigh the consequences, too.
- 1 decade ago
"sigh" you know you are the reason why 60% of nice guys turn into a**holes...
the new guy is cute... and your bf is nice but lame
honestly do what you want... but if this new guy break your heart... dont you DARE run back to your ex boyfriend....
oh well it's your life not mines
my advice to you is this...
your boyfriend is going to turn into the biggest a**hole becuase of this and i can feel it... he is going to find out... and if he is really sensitive that after 4years this (new guy) steals you away... he might even commit suicide... i can see it...
Damn i am so right about women (im happy im attractive)
Cute/Hot guy = WIN
Your current boyfriend that you arent sexually attracted to = FAIL
