Women- please your help immediately?

No, I would never take advantage of his feelings. I am a pretty direct person. If, for instance, I notice that he likes me or if he tells me this, I would tell him what I think and feel for him. If I feel him as a friend only, I would try not to hurt his feelings and tell him that we cannot be anything more, but just what we are. But If I like him as well, I would try to give him signs ;) However, being direct is the best thing ever. I think that everyone would appreciate this. You do not have to change your behaviour toward someone who is falling for you and you feel nothing special about him. Just keep it normal. Be sensitive and careful, but Direct above all.

Well it kind of seems that you think all women are the same but they're not. Noone here can tell you what that particular woman you know feels and why is she doing what she's doing. There're selfish women, there're also good women, maybe she's flirty, maybe she is genuinly interested. You just can't know what's inside her head. But when there's no clarity you can act accordingly, that means don't get close to her if you feel that you might fall in love with her more and she doesn't seem to feel the same, in other words respond appropriately to her actions. You can give her hints and see how she reacts, that would help you understand situation better. And then decide your next moves. Just be careful, put your feelings first, until you found that it's safe to trust.