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A girl I like isn't over her ex, what's my next move?
I met a girl on a dating website. We talked all the time for a couple of months and then finally met. After she got distant and finally told me she still had issues and feelings from her ex husband. They were high school sweethearts got married had a kid. When their daughter was born she caught him cheating After that he decided he needed time to "figure things out" so they split. In the 3 years since he had another kid with her (her youngest is only 7 months) and just had another kid with his new gf/fiance/whatever. She said that she felt like she was rushing things and wasn't past her feelings for him. I really like her and think she is such a special person but she says all she can offer me now is a friendship. In my experience being a caring friend to a girl is the best way to never have anything more with her....can anyone tell me if Its better to continue trying to keep up a friendship with her or just stop all communication? Thanks
2 Answers
- 1 decade ago
I think you should give her some space, because she needs to figure out her complications. And you should stay as her friend, cause she's gonna need one in a stressful time like this. And also, you'll probably have a better chance with her as being her friend rather than not knowing her at all. Once she gets over her ex, she'll be ready for a relationship, and thats the time that you should try to impress her or ask her out. Haha I hope that made sense. :/
Anyways, hope this helps. =)
Good luck =D
- 1 decade ago
If you really like this girl, be the guy who gives her your shoulder, give her advice, take her out to take her mind off of things, hug her, make her feel safe, make her trust you, you need to be her galfriend, but...try your best as a guy. Don't piss her off, or make her sadder just be there for her, like you've been there for most of your friends, then, after this, after she gets over this, she'll probably like you, but this isn't about getting her into a relationship or etc... This is about trying to help her. Don't take her for granted, imagine her as a precious flower. You need to take care of this flower.
