I cant stop. how can i stop?

Stop, right now! It is time to take a break. For the next four weeks do not go to any of your usual hangouts. Do not make plans with any of your usual partying friends. And for goodness sake don't have sex with anybody. Alcohol is off limits. Cold turkey. You must give yourself a chance to just clear your head. You sound depressed to me. Contact a counseling service either through the yellow pages or through your family doctor. You will benefit from telling your story to an neutral party. Some times hearing yourself say the words will give you some insight into why your are unhappy. It's a process. You can get this behind you and move on to happier, better times.

Maybe you aren't as smart as you think.

You can see your problem, but you don't seem to be able to control yourself.

If you continue this way you will be a mother.

That is what all the showing of your body is for.

To find a man.

And you call it love.

I call it reproduction, and nature has programmed that into your brain.

So you are just following your natural programming.

The result is the baby.

So what will you do between now, and that baby?

I hope you will be as smart as you think you are, and find a loyal partner, who will stay with you AFTER you share your body with him.

THAT is what life is all about.

And for the women who think that guys only want sex, then I will tell you that the women want sex too.

If you don't agree, then do NOT have sex.

And see if the guys will give you attention.

You see, men and women need each other, because nature gave them the instructions.

Women have a double standard about a relationship.

Women have an idea that a man is supposed to love them.

But the result is the same: baby.

Ok so I'll try and answer the best I can =]... I feel like I am going through something similar to your situation. For example, I feel like I was way more mature back in High School than I am now (I'm 20). My attitude has changed and I realize I'm I don't really care as much anymore about many things.. I think that its just apart of growing up and you go through different phases in your life. As far as boys, girl I know what you're saying, I am really beautiful too but I also feel like they only want sex from me.. And you know what? They do. That's all guys really want lol.. well atleast for now until they feel like they're ready to find someone to be serious with. If you really want to know which boy likes you for you, don't sleep with him for a long while, let him take you out on dates and basically don't get real close.. If he really likes you for you, he will stick around and see you as a prize since you're holding your own and not easy you know? Also, do not sell yourself short, do not bring down your expectations! I hope it all goes well and I hope I helped lool.. I really did try haha

I do recommend this boy for you!! Its amazing! "Why Men Love Bitches".. Look it up its very interesting! Good luck!

You know what you are just dragging with your peer pressure/adolescence age pressure. I am 26 yrs single and virgin guy. I do feel like sometime to go crazy and do what you do but we have to control that behaviour to prove ourself better than others. We all need everything and good one wait for the right time and opportunity. I just would suggest you keep your self esteem high, do meditation and when you feel desparate control your own rather than using someone. Please restrict your problem or else you will mess up with everything one day. Stop drinking and giving yourself so easily.

I would like to chat you. If you interested pls add me on yahoo messenger aminice0783@yahoo.com

Sorry if you are hurt with anything mentioned above.

Thanks

there are guys that appreciate you for who you are not how you look ---- as for the rest only you can stop this if you want to ---- but it sounds like you dont want to stop --- there are so many things that could be affecting your dating life and without knowing you a lot better could not offer any suggestions ---- maybe look at different guys --- younger/older than you have in the past --- different walks of life --- different jobs ---- i wish you well and i am sure you will find someone --- and dont forget everyone has a different definition of fun

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Find a friend who you can have a regular hook up with. That way you're not having sex with random guys.