What do I do about this? I need help fast!?

I know moving by yourself seems very scary, but it almost seems like the best option in your situation. Always remember that there is nothing wrong being alone. There is also nothing wrong with wanting a father figure for her daughter, but you also need to be happy. There is nothing wrong with a little selfishness every now and again.

Definitely stay away from the one with a multiple personality disorder, do you really want someone like that around your daughter? Probably not.

As far as the biological father, if things didn't work out the first time, that could very well be a sign of what is to come. The fact that you are feeling so wary about it, makes it seem like you don't want to be with him either. As I stated, there is nothing wrong with being alone, nothing wrong with being single. In your journey to find a father figure for your daughter, you will make yourself miserable being with the wrong person and that would be worse than you being a single mother.

Perhaps there is someone great waiting for you in this new place that you are moving to? It sounds like a great chance for you to have a nice, fresh start over, spend sometime by yourself and with your daughter, and move on from unhealthy relationships!

Sounds like you are trying to use both of them. Steer clear of the one with multiple personality disorder. If he’s frightening for you then whatever affect is he having on your daughter?

If you love her father then it would be great if you could all move together as a family unit but seeing as you are having a fling without his knowledge then you are still having major issues in your relationship with him.

Find someone you can truly love unselfishly or your daughter will never have a father figure.

Are any of his personae frightening or dangerous? If so, I'd suggest you get out. If the personae seem safe, however, I'd see no reason to believe otherwise; many people with MPD aren't dangerous at all. In fact, it could be a great way for your daughter to grow up - learning about many different types of personalities, as well as respect for those with mental disorders.

If you'd like more information on MPD (DID) I'd suggest you go here: http://bit.ly/bITOi6

where kinda in the same situation but i dont have a daughter i think just move cuz its not like there isnt going to be boys where ur moving at im sure the'yll be someone whos better than him here email me about it!

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either way good luck