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I'm so depress right now. Plz tell me what to do.?
I have a friend, not bff but we're quite close. The problem is she's also my housemate and she is soooooo ******* stingy!!!! She use all my stuff, eat all my food. I know we're housemate, but for God sake, she doesn't even want to buy anything for the house. She just keep using our stuff. (There's 4 of us in the house). She use my perfume, my shampoo, and even my toothpaste. What a stingy *****. I juz hate her. God, what should I do, I've never ever met someone like this this.
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Calm down just set her down and tell her your not her mother and it bothers you that she is using all your stuff. I hope your not selfish because it's ok to let other people have some of your stuff just not all the time. So don't just set there being mad tell her and I am, sure she will understand. Now she may not have any money so ask her and if she does not help her ok.
- 1 decade ago
This happens so much more than you probably realize.
You have basically 2 options. The first being to move out. The second is to talk to her. It's not easy to do, but it needs to be done or you will go crazy!
I also had a roommate in college that did the same thing. She always used my bathroom toiletries, so I finally brought them ito my room and put them in drawers. That didnt even stop her. She would walk into my room and take tampons, hair gel, toothpaste. This obviously made me mad because how could she not get the hint that all of a sudden the toothpast wasn't in the bathroom? Who keeps toothpaste in a bedroom? haha
Anyway, I finally sat her down and told her that she needed to stop using my things. At first she was a little defensive, but when I explained that I had to buy those things myself and I couldnt afford to buy it for both of us, she eased up a bit. It got better, but not perfect.
Some people think they are just entitled to it~ or dont realize how much it can irritate a person.
Anyway~ in all honesty, you HAVE to sit her down and talk to her. Or maybe you and your other 2 roommates should talk to her together. If she knows its all 3 she is irritating, it will be more of a wake up call for her.
