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should I be straight bi or gay?

ok, I have a boyfriend and I am attracted to girls but never wanted to be with a girl and lately i've been having fantasy's about makin love to a women and I had this weird dream last night that I was at a strip club and a stripper was dancing on me and I started to eat her, I was really turned on and now i am so confused.

and by the way I'm a girl

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You should be yourself. Whether you are straight, bisexual, or lesbian is entirely up to you to discover. From the description of your recent experiences and dreams, it sounds as if you are Bi-curious. Explore that...determine for your self if making love to a woman and making love to a man are equally enjoyable, or one is more so than the other, or neither is enjoyable...this is one determination you will have to make on your own.

    Good Luck, and stay well!

    (Do use reasonable precautions when engaging in intimate behaviour with partners of any sex or gender...no sense getting an unplanned illness that could have been avoided.)

  • 1 decade ago

    well you just maybe what you said... Confused... its happends to alot of people so dont feel like your the only one ok? Nothing wronge with being curious. If you want to try out kiss a girl ... in real life. If you want more then may just be Bi. If not ur straight.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    First and foremost, you cannot just "be" straight, gay, or bisexual; your sexual orientation is determined by your own sexual urges, not exactly personal choice. Nevertheless, if you have a legitimate sexual attraction to both guys and girls, then you are bisexual. Based on your dialog, you definitely do not sound 100% straight.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I wouldnt say it is 100% straight. You do seem to be having a lesbian side. Some people are heterosexual and homoromantic (means, in a way, bisexual). You might be something like that.

    Source(s): Heterosexual and homoromantic guy
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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    That's a hot fantasy.

    Oh. You're bi-curious btw.

  • Orla C
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    You SHOULD be what you are.

    I'm guessing you're bi-curious right now - so go off and explore it. I'm sure your boyfriend would be delighted to entertain a threesome.

  • Saying "Should" insinuates that you're trying to choose. You are what you are, there is no choice.

  • Lemons
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Are you really asking the internet what sexuality you should be? Why not figure it out for yourself, kid?

  • 1 decade ago

    be4 ask that on public ask yourself what is your desires .

  • Malice
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You should experiment.

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