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Kaitlyn
Kaitlyn asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

I'm moving in with him, but should i be feeling like this?

I have been dating this guy for 3 years now. And we were best friends before that. I love him to death and with my whole heart and hope to marry him. We recently decided to live together and we move in on June 30th. Im very excited but at the same time im very scared and nervous. And i cant really pin point why.. whether it be im making a serious step with him and i fear change, or because i've never lived away from my mom and brothers and sisters.... it may be both.. i don't normally like change, but then again i want this.. Is it a bad idea? He is so excited and happy and i am too, but he isn't scared or nervous at all. Any advice as to help me feel better?

Update:

we HAVE discussed getting married and that is deff in the future. I dont want anyone else. i just think its going to be weird and scary a little. ill miss my mom and my sister horribly. and my brother left for the marines today! so much is changing so fast. i WANT to live with him. im just scared. and i feel like im at the age now when i SHOULD be moving out...

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  • ?
    1 decade ago

    I think you have answered you own question; If marriage is where this relationship is headed then have no fear you both will get through anything. Leaving home and family can be a difficult move but you have to leave the nest and experience life at some point. Just dive in :)

    Good luck!

  • Classylady
    1 decade ago

    I think its something in your gut telling you to wait. I really feel that if you tell your boyfriend, we should wait awhile he'll be fine with it,if he loves you like he says he does. And it seems like he does since you guys been together for 3 years. He'll respect your decision and wait until your ready. I mean even though you guys are in a relationship for this long. i think you need to think about your decision. people who are not married and start living together. They have a high chance of getting a divorce then couples who actually get married and move in together.

    Good luck

  • len b
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If the two of you would have discussed long term goals before moving in together you would likely feel better now.

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