Would you forgive someone who molested you?

Your boyfriend is to be commended on his attitude toward his sister. He has fully come to terms with the event and has justified the causal forces at work when it happened. You should be very proud of him and not attempt to stir up hard feelings between him and his sister. There is little of anything positive that can come out of you attempting to resurrect the incident.

Molestation happens more than we all know. It's a tough subject and a big deal that he even told you about it, he must trust you big time. Try to be sensitive to both of them, because that's something that can really mess with a persons head and must be treated with care. Be happy for them theat they overcame such a terrible thing.

it doesn't matter if they changed or not when i was growing up i was one of the most happiness kids ever but then that happened to me and my parents could not find out what was wrong with me cause i was carrying that with me until a few years ago i had finally forgave them so i could move on with my life...but anyway to this day the person that did that to me is the same person she was back then and while i was messed up from what she did she was living her life and i had that with me and i couldn't be happy until i forgave her

nope i wouldnt forgive

my cousin raped me for 4 years from the age of 10 - 14 and i havent forgave him cause i ended up pregnant (lost the child naturally)

my parents still dont even know bout it yet only person that knows is my bf

No I would never forgive someone for that. But other people like your brother thing differently.

it depends if the person has changed at all, if they're the same messed up weirdo, then no. if they'

ve changed and are good people now then yes.

forgiveness, is a choice to make with the grace from above.

They were right. You're just jealous.