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I just wanna fool around?

there is this girl I like but I don't want a relationship I just want to fool around (not sex) and I want to know how to tell her that.

Update:

okay I wasnt really specific with my problem. there are two girls that I like and I would like to date one and just fool around with the other how do I request such a thing?

Update 2:

well sex would be okay I guess but I'm not saying I don't want to I just know shes not ready so I'll settle for coming close but not the actual thing. I'm sorry if this makes no sense whatsoever

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well, she may want the same thing as you.

    You don't know.

    I mean, i personally want a summer fling, someone to be involved with to have fun and go to museums with and kiss but i don't want a real relationship.

    I just wanna have fun this summer,

    Maybe you should start by hanging out with her, tell her you don't want a relationship right now but you like hanging out with her and you wanna hang out with her every time.

    You wanna have fun with her.

    Don't tell her you want to fool around, it'll shock you that she may like the idea and be careful cos you may fall in love.

  • 1 decade ago

    be more specific. what you mean you wana fool around but not sex? i dont get that bit

    anyway if you dont want anything serious with her, tell her maybe not face to face cause she might slap you or punch you in the face.

    text her this:

    hey im not looking for a relationship, just wana have some fun, so what you say we get together and have lots of fun. hope you feel the same way.

    see what she replies and if shes not up for it, try the next girl cause she wont be changing her mind son

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  • hafter
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Oh Yeah. Thats completely usual for adult adult males, pretty in the event that they sleep on their stomachs. C'mon, they awaken with boners, they get attractive merely sound asleep. some ladies awaken like that too. Weirdd. haha

  • 1 decade ago

    tell her you just wanna hook up sometimes, tell her to just think along the "friends with benefits" line. she'll understand. but that doesnt mean she'll go for it... most girls dont like feeling like a ho by doing things with guys they arent in a relationship...but as long as youre honest with your feeling then she'll be more receptive to what you want

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  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her what's on your mind. Maybe she's thinking the same thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    you not gay are u what u mean fool around if it aint sex what is it you wanna plaeasure her with your mouth or what need more details

  • prissy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    TELL HER YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP JUST A CASUAL FRIENDSHIP

  • 1 decade ago

    tell her straight out you dont want a rerlationship maybe she will agree you won't know unitl you tell her!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    GO FOR THE SEX!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why not sex? Don't be a loser, man!

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