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my brother is getting married later on this year but my future sister in law has to move in with us..?
my brother will be getting married later on this year, and my future sis in law will come to live with us. Because were muslim this is what automatically happens. Im dreading it bigtime!
We are three sisters and one brother. I find change really hard normally and im petrified of what will happen.
Will we get on or will there be arguments.. I just hope when she comes shes doesnt act like she owns the place.
thankyou any nice words will help me x
9 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
She will be much more worried about it than you. She is leaving her own family and moving in with yours. Try to be a friend to her.
- living starLv 51 decade ago
How about thinking of your brother so he will feel at ease that you sisters and his future wife will all get along here. Since she is coming into your home then you should all ease and make her feel welcome.She is probably feeling like you all.But your already negative by saying, "your dreading it big time' already.So why the attitude? This attitude is going to start problems.Change your attitude into positive thinking and hopefully things will go better.If you send out negative vibes around you then everyone will develop them and that is how problems start.So start with yourself and think positive.Help her feel welcome and don't be selfish into your own feelings
- 1 decade ago
I am not muslim! But do you think Alah, God would do anything to harm you? Isn't He the Almighty?
All Powerful? Unquestionable? Turn your concerns over to Him and see what His will is. He could be bringing you a older/younger sister; someone you can share tasks with. Someone you can talk to about the good things in life and work together through the bad. Don't make this something God doesn't intend it to be. Your brother Loves her and as a child of God were supposed to treat others as children of God too. Look at Naomi and Ruth as an example.
- 1 decade ago
Hi just thinking you should be yourself, and its okay to worry change does that ! Im guessing you cant do anything about it., oh and look at the other side your sis in law maybe worried that she wont fit in with 3 sisters x
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- ?Lv 45 years ago
she's calling you that because of the fact she sees you in his destiny. your a reliable man or woman and you have had a protracted relationship together with his guy. certainly sounds like your getting married quickly. reliable success=)
- VekLv 41 decade ago
You're petrified? Imagine you're her, how would you feel? She's coming to your home, you need to make it easy for her not the other way around.
- ღ†Rocker Wife†ღLv 71 decade ago
No one here can possibly predict whether you'll get along or not. Just be yourself and welcome her into the family. That's all you can do.
