Did we dated?She says we never dated so she justifies her cheating behavior?

I had a relationship with this women ,we went out a few times and did things couples do at the beginning of a relationship things like dining clubbing movies and such,I decided to end this relationship because she started seeing somebody,there was no intercourse in our relationship.oral sex was given and received,I don't want to see her if she's with somebody else ,now she wants to remain friends according to her, dating implies intercourse always,is that true?