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Christina
Christina asked in Society & CultureCultures & GroupsLesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender · 1 decade ago

So my mom found out...?

So I was online playing my friend in Red Dead Redemption wearing womens clothing, but that was the least of my worries. My mom called me up at.. 2AM? so i reverted back to my normal males cloths, and went to talk with my mom. She had been snooping around my room and found my stash of womens clothing and confronted me. Good news is that its off my back.

One problem though, She stated she loved me no matter what several times during the convo, but kept going on and on about how this is going to come back to haunt me. She said people are going to judge you wrongly, which would be true, but she's the only one that knows, other than you guys of course XD, but she is scared my friends will find out and will defriend me, my relationships will be bad, on and on and on about all that bull **** about what can possibly happen. Personally I think she is over reacting since I do it in the privacy of me and my own home. she was going on about how its going to get over me and take me over, but the thing is, im 20 years old, and ive been hiding this for about 8 years, and it still hasn't taken me over.

Now I would love to show her these responses but then she will see that i have an Alias on yahoo answers and think of it even worse.

Update:

Actually Im just a regular male that likes to crossdress and wear womens clothing, nothing more

Update 2:

xx or xy¿Ø↔♀♂♥ - I'm like 99.9999% sure i am not a male stuck in a females body / I dont ever want to go out of my house and do this.

As for everyone else, thank you for your responses, it means a lot

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  • Adam
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Your mom simply needs to be educated on what i means to be a cross dresser. It doesn't mean your gay or wishing you were a woman or anything like that. Find some info and share it with her. Then give her a big hug for trying to understand.

  • The wannabe
    1 decade ago

    If its something you like doing and you dont have problems with doing it. then do it, don't be fake and act like someone who you aren't. if this is your true self, start living it the fullest.

    but if you are confused on the issue and want to seek help. you can always see a therapist.

    im glad your mom understands and still loves you for who you are.

    and if you plan on getting married. it'll probably pose a problem with your future wife?

  • xx or xy¿Ø↔♀♂♥
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Thanks for shearing its good to get things off your back. Are you sure that you are just a regular male who likes to cross dress? Me I also started out like you but over time Ive come to find out that im transsexual. and Im getting my life in order. I think that you should take the time and think about it and why you started cross dressing?

    Source(s): my life and experinces xx or xy♀♂♥☺☻☼¿
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think it will eventually damage your close relationships. You can't hide something like this forever, especially if you plan on getting married. I think you should see a therapist.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    are you transgendered or transvestite, I suspect from your writing you are transgendered.

    Edit: oh, that's transvestitism, anyway, I got nothing here

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