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why do I go after gay men?
Im a woman who for some unknown reason has always gone after gay men and tried to turn them straight, ie get them to fall in love w me. Ive been rejected alot by mother, father, grandparents, and wonder if Im trying to get my Mom to love me?
Danielle I agree gay men are amazing, also agree w other poster that I need to leave them alone. I wish I could just have a gay guy friend w/o trying to turn him straight. I have thought about going ftm but even though I have gender identity things going on, I think I like being female.
I wonder if I am a lame person. I was hyper-religious for years, lately I have been trying to do what I want -- Me! Me! Me! instead of living for others like a good little woman...it feels great, now I wonder, am I a gay man trapped in a woman's body? Ive always had gender identity problems, but I like wearing make up and being a feminine woman...Im not trying to be rebellious but I want to know the truth about things.
5 Answers
- ?Lv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Because gay men are caring, loving, nurturing, and just amazing all around.
Straight men are egotistic, body oriented, lustful d-bags.
Unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it, unless you go FtM. Or you can start dating women.
Edit: Yeah, I don't blame you. I love being female too. Wouldn't have it any other way. It sucks that the only decent men are gay. But there are tons of wonderful women out there. Of course if you're attracted to the male body, that's not going to work.
Sounds like a bad situation all around. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you find someone special, whoever it turns out to be.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You may be confusing friendship with sexual attraction. Most gay men enjoy having women friends, and they usually get along really well with them. Some women mistake that friendship for love.
Straight guys can be a lot harder to deal with, because they tend to either come on too strong or to ignore you completely. But there are some good ones out there, don't give up.
And PS, get out of the habit of saying "I always" anything. The future is yours to control, you don't have to keep repeating the same patterns forever. Just understand what you've been doing wrong and decide you're not going to do it anymore. You'll be surprised at all the possibilities that are open to you.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I saw a woman like this on the tyra banks show. And she was told by a doctor that she's attracted to gay men because she knows that they will never really love her back because she feels like that's what she deserves because that's what she's had her whole life.
- DuskLv 61 decade ago
Because you chase after something you KNOW you can't have but you try anyway. For your sake and for the gay guys' sake leave them alone and pursue someone you CAN have a relationship with (a.k.a a STRAIGHT man).
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- 1 decade ago
Either you like a challenge, or you're purposely (but subconciously) setting yourself up for failure by going after gay men. You know deep down they will reject you, and since you've been rejected by others you convince yourself this is what you deserve.
