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LGBT: Worst date ever, and why didn't it bother me?

I recently went on a date with a bi-guy "He was a good looking guy", and lets just say it wasn't pretty... probably the worst date I've been on yet..

We planned a day at the beach, when I met this person, he didn't say hi, he just put his stuff in my car, and seriously talked about his ex all the way to the beach (And he cursed like a sailor) while constantly texting and saying how he hates everything..

Well when we got to the beach, he made me take lame pictures of him wearing an open white shirt "Like he was some sort of Model"..

He then kept talking about his ex, then saw a cute guy and began talking to him.. We then finally went into the water, I tried being fun and playful, but he would get pist-off.. He then layed on the beach and got a tan while I frolicked by myself in the water..

Before we left, he then made me take more "Myspace Model" pics of him on the beach, running shirtless, and "modeling"

And on the way back, he would yell at random people on the street "He did this for over half an hour" and he just laughed hysterically..

Then he held my hand, I thought it was cute, but he just did it to try and grab my... uhem.. yea.. I didn't let him btw..

I couldn't walk out of the date because I drove..

What I want to know is, what is wrong with me? Why and how could I just sit through all of this? Should I just stop dating in general and work on myself? Does this mean I have a lack of self respect or low self esteem?

I swear I thought I was on MTV's Disaster Date.. but I didn't get no $60 at the end..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Oh my! You poor guy! I'm sorry you had to sit through that!

    I would suggest you don't pass up a fun date if you see an opportunity. You had self respect because you didn't let him grab you and you didn't let it turn into a one night stand.

    Be careful who you date, that's all. Have fun. You had one bad date, and you were polite enough to sit through it.

    You were being a good, well mannered person, nothing wrong with that(:

  • 1 decade ago

    You seem like a very kind person that wants to keep people happy. No matter what they're like. Which is cute, but doesn't place you in the best of situations. It's okay to tell him to slow down, or say you don't feel like being out with him any longer. If you make people happy at the cost of you having a bad time, you're doing it wrong.

  • 1 decade ago

    BRUTAL!! i was wincing in sympathy for you! this guy was an a**hole. and you were the bettter man by taking him home.. if i were you i would of left is sorry a*s @ the beach when he was talking to that other guy. you are a gentleman. and you will find someone who knows how to repect and appreciate what a wonderful guy you are. Don't giveup hope!! Guys like you are hard to find. The fact that your upset over how he treated you, shows that you have enough self repect to know what kind of treatment you deserve and whats just bulls**t.

    keep your chin up. we've all had those nightmare dates! =)

    best o' luck

    Source(s): Too Much Experience
  • 5 years ago

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  • Adam
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Personally I would have left his *** on the beach and driven home. No dude, it's not you, it was him. So you fell off the bike, get back on and start dating again. Look at it this way, anything will be an improvement over him and you'll be able to laugh about this one to everyone.

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow, this guy sounds like a tactless jerk... You're a lot nicer than me apparently, because I would have just left him at the beach and gone home after all that!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You don't realize scum when you see it. You're probably thinking about how hot he is... thinking with your juebos and not with your corazon! Unless you just wanna f*ck him then go for it, but he's not boyfriend material... he's not even f*cking material actually, why would you even wanna associate with someone like that? You have issues with yourself because you're letting a crap guy like that in your life

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry but Im just lol'ing at mental images of you "frolicking"

    I dont think Ive ever frolicked in my life!

    and certainly not in public.

    guys a douche, you sound sweet, forget him, find a nice guy to date.

  • 1 decade ago

    well you seem like a nice person, it seems like you didn't want to hurt his feelings or somthing. idk. but you definately should NOT go on another date with him, or you ARE crazy and you DO have low self esteem and no respect for yourself. but obviously since you recognize this guy was a complete jerk, then you're fine. just a bad date. wouldn't worry about it :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He Was Obviously using you to ventilate all his past relationship problems

    it sounds to me like he had no interest in you.

    The Guys An Asshole you sound sweet you deserve alot better

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