Should I tell my girlfriend everything?

no offense, but you are 15, and you will most likely not still be with your current girlfriend long term. Every 15 year old thinks they are going to be with their significant other forever and ever. At 15 she will most likely not want to be involved in those kinds of fetishes, because she is very new to the whole sexual relationship, if she has even had sex at all. You are not a freak .. my best friend told me that he was turned on by bondage since he was about 14 years old. When you are older you will find someone who you can share these things with .. if these things are really depressing you, then maybe do some counseling? Good Luck

Yes honesty is key.

But if this relashonship just started or hasn't gotten too serious yet, maybe you shouldn't tell her EVERYTHING. Only the minor things you are comfortable with should be told.

You have to be able to trust this girl with your secrets. So if you feel a little unsure, obviously you're not ready. Wait until you feel like these things won't drive her away. Wait until you can tell her and know that she WILL stay with you, and that she won't judge you. Moving too fast can sometimes damage the relashonship.

Never lie to her.

There's a difference between lying and simply not bringing something up for discussion.

& since your 15, you should keep those secrets with you. I advise you not to tell anyone. What if they get out to the whole school?

Good luck finding a girlfriend then!

I think you should hold on to theses ebarrasing "fetishes" until you've found someone you know you can trust and tell everything to. And this person DOESN'T have to be your girfriend.

Just because she's your girlfriend she doesn't have to know everything, but she doesn't deserve to be lied to either.

Don't cross your comfort zone. You are entitled to your own secrets.

P.S. Honesty has nothing to do with keeping a deep dark secret of your own. (YOU'RE ENTITLED TO YOUR OWN SECRET! No one ever said that was lying)

Sincerely,

Mrs. Right.

(Hope I helped)

Take it easy. You're 15 and might just grow out of some of these things. Plus, like some others have said, it's not like you're engaged, you're still young, but if you're with her still in 4-5 years then you're doing something right and you might just be able to open up about some of these things.

When you get there, I'd personally say do it gradually. Throwing a lot of that at her at once might be too much for her, but if you ease her into it by the time you bring up the really creepy stuff she'll be better prepared to handle it.

Although leave out the hatred part, that'll make you look like a jackass :P

If you are comfortable enough with telling her then you should. Just let her know that it's a part of your past that you would rather be kept private but you trust her enough and care/love her enough to open up to her about it. And it's not that it is unfair, but rather the way you are. You are a private person and I'm sure she knows and accepts that because you've lasted for 3 years! Sometimes, opening up to people about things we've only kept to ourselves really helps the relationship and helps you understand your past more. I'm sure she'll be grateful when you do tell her what happened.

There is always going to be things that you don't tell in a relationship. So no, honesty isn't key. You can tell her if you really want but she probably would rather not know. She might even break up with her if you tell her. Besides, it's things kept to yourself. If you cheated on her, THAT she should know. But otherwise, no. I'm pretty sure you already decided not to tell her everything. I can just tell by your writing. So keep it to yourself unless you feel it is necessary. I hope this helps!

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YES, TELL HER ! Honesty IS key to to a great relationship. Just don't walk up to her with a list of stuff you never told her, then she will never trust you. If it happens to come up in a conversation, just mention it, don't make a big deal out of telling her something you've been hiding. Maybe you can get a little laugh out of it, If she doesn't like it, then maybe you shouldn't be going out with her. Plus, if you're more revealing, she will be too !

Honesty is the key in a relationship but... some people really like their privacy don't come straight out and tell her but if she asks go ahead and tell the truth. If you need to lie don't make it a huge fib but don't make something to where she won't trust you anymore.

If she asks, tell her. If you're hiding information because you feel ashamed, bad, afraid, then recognize that you have issues with these secrets, and that you need to sort that stuff out on your own. If that's the case, then figure it out, so you can be open about it. You're 15 though, chill the eff out. You're going to meet so many people. Shoot, you might even find out you like dudes.

Don't tell her!!! your 15 not married and besides shes a 9th grade gf kids these days don't keep a relationship when you get married then tell that person everything when you were a little kid. your to young and when you 2 break up and she goes around telling everybody everything you'll have no friends and no gf's anymore and honestly I don't think you want that.

uhm... just tell her the good things first and not the creepy ones (like the porn addiction and picture ppl naked thing first) that way she can get to know you better and not judge you right away