this is important...and i need advice. serious advice.?

He sounds like an idiot to me for the following reasons:-

1. Left his family for a girl who is not even sure if she loves him

2. Dropping out of college when he can make an awesome career if he continues, be stable financially and then can marry who ever

How old are u two ?

If you have ever loved him..EVER..please ask this guy to go back to his family and apologize..his career will be ruined otherwise

tell him that you two can wait until you both have stable careers

Clarie, Never run from someone to someone ..... It takes time to heal .... but you had a great guy influence you, your feelings and you saw the way it should be done .... Do you now know how you want a guy to treat you .... how you wish to be respected? Then the heart ache was worth it ..... you learned ..... no that you have a pattern .....a idea so to speak ... you can look around you when you meet people to see how folks measure up ... over time your views and wants & needs may change .... but you have personal knowledge of this man to contrast & compare to others along your life path .... A person who's better suited for you (closer in age) will come along ..... i pitty the fool ... he has large shoes to fill ..... But I bet he will think your worth it. If your in school ... try the counsilor for a referal on who to talk with, there may be peer counsiling groups too, the Church can help ..... last shot get the parents to check the medical benefits .... but your best shot here ... is time and meeting new people. Good Luck

dear i really don't have a perfect advice for you... but there is one thing you got to know, put God first on everything you are doing nd He will help you find the right way to go. In this situation you need to take your time, try to settle down a little, try to go to college and get a degree, i know there is no love without sacrifices but it depends on how strong you nd your bf are. if you guys really love each other, you can stop seeing each other for a while, or do it secretly. try to get ready for your future nd once u have a good education nd a job on hand nothing can't stop you. but you have to be really strong to do such a thing. You guys can still be dating but don't tell anything to your parents, cause if you guys leave your parents...i guarantee you , there is gonna a lot more bumps along the road than there is now.

This everlasting love and sacrifices are getting you nowhere. There is stiff resistance from both your families. And in case you marry there will be social problems, community problems, religious problems and this will have a serious impact on the kids you will procreate. And usually this sort of love fades faster than you think and the result is both your lives will be ruined. It is better you separate and not get married. Anyway it is your life and your decision counts. I can only give you some friendly advice.

This is a sucky situation. He left his family for you, but you can't marry him out of respect for your mom. There is no winning. I think, though, that since you both already know that you love each other, that you could continue the relationship somewhat the same as you have been..?

I know it's not the answer you want, but I can't think of anything you two can do.......

Good luck.

Muslims can't be trusted. I think you should leave him and accept your mother's advice. Find a Hindu bf.

if both you love to each other and ready to sacrifice for each other :)marry him.

if he understands u and u him.but if problem will come in your life no one will help you.not your parents not his.

I guess when all is said and done, you are who you are, and that should be good enough for everybody else.

THE SAME THING IS HAPPENING TO MY FRIEND RIGHT NOW; THE ONLY THING I CAN SUGGEST/ASK IS HAVE YOU MENTIONED ANY OF THIS TO HIM? AND DOESN HE KNOW THAT YOUR FAMILY FEELS THE SAME THAT HIS DOES?

Agreed with whats wrong!!!