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Why isn't my best friend talking to me?
When we hang out, everything is great and just like usual which is about once a week by the way.
The past 4 months, she has been ignoring my texts (well most) and not answering my phone calls when we used to talk on the phone every night. I know that she has her phone, because when we hang out she texts her boyfriend off and on. She seems really depressed half of the time too and she used to be able to talk to me about it but now she doesn't. When I asked why she wasn't talking as much, she told me it was school but now school is out and she's still being different (as far as communicating when we're not hanging out).
Oh and I am the one who plans like 3 out of every 4 times we hang out. So she still does invite me I guess; just not as much.
We have been best friends for 4 years so it's not like I'm just some random person annoying the hell out of her.
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I have the same issue with my friends. I was really close to a couple of my friends (aka they were twins) and we use to text all the time and hangout almost every weekend. Now we hardly see or text each other.
I know I won't get a "best answer", but I would want to give my opinion. She is probably wanting more time for other friends. Maybe you guys have been so close already, that she feels that a lot of her life started to include you and it scared her. You should just keep doing what you are doing, to a lesser extent. Keep texting her and checking up on her, but don't annoy her. Keep going on these hangouts with her and just keep it rolling. Maybe the time will pass and she would become the bestie you know and love again in the future, but for now, keep it the way it is.
I hope I kind of helped you. She probably just needs her space and she'll be back shortly -- just STAY IN THERE though because you don't want to give the impression you're "over" her.
- 1 decade ago
Maybe u have to convince your friend to talk to u and listen to wat his/her problem is?
