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His Family don't like me?

Ok, I am 30 yrs old dating a 59 yrs old man. We have been together off and on for 2 yrs. At 1st my family was against it, but now they really don't care. His family is against it. One of his daughters is telling lies on me left and right. She is doing everything to keep him from around me. She is telling people that I sleep around and only want her dad for his money. I have my own everything before him.

I am so tired of this lies, but he isn't doing nothing wrong. My sister is telling me to over look his daughter and a friend of my tell me to leave his ol butt alone. What should I do? Long as I am with him, I have to look at his lieing underminding daughter. I stop going to his family events but he still comes to mine. Should I stay with him or look for a man closer to my age? Any answers, need ideal, something. Thanks

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Doesn't sound like you are all that connected and he has to know what kind of person his daughter is. If he won't tell her to shut her trap and cut the crap then I don't see much future with him. There are lots of lonely older men around so take your pick.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd say leave because he wont but his daughter in her place but, she's family and wants the best for him. But frankly, its amazing your dealing with this. I doubt the family will attempt to get use to you but, if you really care for him, and his family is worth dealing with then take him as he is (with the family-that-hates-you and all.) If you can't live a life with him and this (in my opinion), move on, why waste your time?

    And please don't stay with him if he isn't telling his daughter that he loves you and there is nothing to change him mind. Because if he just watches the scene unfold with not intervening, get us to this often.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he is not taking your side or if seems like he doesn't believe you the kick him to the curb you deserve someone who be on your side believes in you. Sit down with his daughter talk to her ask her why she's doing this what shes feeling then sit down with him and talk about the situation the go be by yourself and just think about the future do you see him in it or do you see someone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should talk to him about it...stay with the guy cause those bitches cant tell you what to do...stay strong! if you are nice to them maybe they would like you but if they still hate you.. just dont talk to them and act like a Bltch! (sorry for the words haha) respect yourself and ignore does people...

    you are better than that... dont talk to his famly unless they talk to you... or ask you something

    act like you dont need/or care about his family....

    they would be like :-O .... act very serious around them... when they talk to you dont you ever look down cause that means your scared.... look at them right into their eyes and talk to them... if they tell you something bad...his daughter whatever just say "your mother!" and then you say you never said that...just kidding but you can still do that... they would see how bitchy you are...

    good luck!

    Source(s): My Open Mind
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  • 1 decade ago

    let him know whats going on and what you need to have happen for this to move to the next level. or sit down with her and let her know she can not bully you out of his relationship. ask her if she wants her dad to be happy

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